Ryan Adams
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
how to deal with seeing a chick who ghosted you in public?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
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Mind your business . What if a dude did it to you?
Ryan Adams
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so just dont even talk to her or act like she never ghosted you? basically act like you dont give 2 sh!ts
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Why would you act like you dont give 2 shytes? There should be no acting involved. You shouldnt give 2 shytes in the first place.
Act indifferent, the same as you would if she was there or if she wasnt. If she comes up to talk just be cordial, not flirty. A simple "Hey how are you" will suffice.
Ryan Adams
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good advice because I knew I'd see a girl who ghosted me months back (not the same one I was talking about in earlier threads shes dead to the world) I saw at an event for work and she saw me and I acted like nothing happened I said how have you been then went on my way and was chatting it up with a cute girl and I saw the ghoster girl try and get closer and closer to me but I just kept it moving.
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Do nothing. A woman that ghosts is dead to you.
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Not doing it right.
The joke is on her. Each passing month, a egg drops, and she bears closer to metapause.
Society is cheering her off the cliff like a water buffalo.
It's ideal you live a life worth remembering. You get your **** together so, when you run into a tramp, she's falling off the cliff, and you're firing off like Elon Musks Falcon 9.
Musk is looking to Terraforming Mars. Do you think he gives a **** about some piss ant from the past?
Neither of us are on his level of genius. The point is to do like him. Shift gears. Call all-in on this life, in your endeavors, and truly transcend the fabric of your being as well as the world around you.
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Mate, some slut didn't ghost. She was just playing games and being idiotic.
I texted her some nonsense and lied to her for being a ****.
Guess what?
I ran into her with a chick around my arm Age 19.
There's no sweeter feel then running into a train wreck from your past when you got top form smv around your arm. Usually, these women are thicker, getting fat, single moms, bastard children different men, and life is garbage.
It's the sweetest feel. Almost as good as sex lulz but not quite. I love to pie skank from the past.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.