"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how to deal with potential lesbian??

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Last week i was out with some of my guy friends eating at a restaurant and our waitress was smoking hot. So i was messing with her bad, and long story short, after a lot of C&F, and fukking with her pretty hard I got her number. After some short convo, I find out we have a mutual friend she worked with for 3 years. So I called him up and got the dirt and find out shes a lesbian. So i dont really care im down for whatever. So a few days roll by and i call her and leave a message. She never returns the call. I text her 4 days later and still got no reply, so I blow her off.

Tonight (1 week ago today I got the number), right when i get home from the club, I get a text message from her asking whats up. Now its game time. So we start texting and I go ahead and drop the L bomb. She admits she likes girls, but says shes not bi. So I ask her if she likes boys and she says "Um not really... but you seem really cool... Im talkin to this girl". So of course i throw in the well i can deal with 2 if you can, and she says she cant, so I say well lets hang out and we'll see what happens. Then she invited me to come up to her work tomorrow.

So, im going up there. I have no idea what to expect, Im totally confused. Chick says shes not bi, but likes girls (Lesbian obviously), but has interest in me, and im not 1% girly. I was messing with her so bad at dinner that night, that the guys at the table said "no way youll get that girls number". My wingman buddy that was there said "oh yeah he will". So i guess i just keep up the busting on her attitude, and see where it goes.

You guys got any advice?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lame, you are chasing rainbows! :rolleyes: You'll never find it!!
 
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My policy is don't get friends involved. And if you do, keep info like that close to your vest.

It's COUNTERintuitive, but in my experience, bi girls often want you to be more macho/domineering than other girls do, especially in the sack.

I mean, really, you aren't going to impress this girl with your gentleness or cunnilingus skills, so why try?
 
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It sounds like she has 'lesbian until graduation' syndrome. She's just fvcked up and experimenting. An ex of mine was a 'lesbian' for a while, and I got to meet a lot of them. None of the ones I met were hot. Almost all of them looked like they should be driving a dog sled team across Alaska.
 
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