How To Deal With Other Alphas?

[*29*]

Now and then, you'll meet other guys who fit some qualities of the DJ. They get the women, have alpha dominance, and are good looking. There'd be no problem if they didn't try to start **** with any other guy that gets in their way, in this case you. Or just start **** with any guy they see. They are muscular and buff and all that stuff.

Example: Huge NFL lineman who eats anybody that is covered in hot sauce for a midnight snack.

Know anything that'll put you in the alpha seat and stake your territory? How would you deal with another alpha who's bigger than you? Trying to stay away from violence and *****y arguments.

 

[Jariel]

Workout, improve your image and attitude until you become the alpha male.

Think long term.

 

[doctoroxygen]

There's a post by Papa in a thread called "Alpha on Alpha Combat" (I think) with a bunch of AMOG tactics in it. If you're worried about the size of the other guy and things getting violent, don't. Social pressure almost always prevents violence unless there's a lot of alcohol involved.

 

[AverageFC]

I say in controlled situtation (not fighting over women for example, but maybe for fun) fighting, boxing, etc can be masculine. Like Fight Club. But with today's emasculated society no one want's to fight. I've challenged several people to fight, for ****s and giggles. And everyone always says no. And other people around are always like no man fighting isnt cool.

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

You write a post with such intimidation that you clearly are not a polarising man(alpha). In such a situation, where you meet the football linebacker guy and you think too much about it, then you will not be the alpha in that situation, that guy will suck up you alphaness.

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

Originally posted by AverageFC
I say in controlled situtation (not fighting over women for example, but maybe for fun) fighting, boxing, etc can be masculine. Like Fight Club. But with today's emasculated society no one want's to fight. I've challenged several people to fight, for ****s and giggles. And everyone always says no. And other people around are always like no man fighting isnt cool.

Not everybody is into fightsports, so most people cant see fighting as a sport or recreational activity. I also used to always wonder why nobody would ever just fight for fun, its not so trivial for most people.

 

[The DomMega]

If worse comes to worse, beat the guy so brutally that you need not fear his revenge. If he's starting **** for no reason, there's no proper etiquette. Do what you have to do to win, but only do this if you're backed into a corner. From the head to the shoe ain't no punks in my crew, hehe.

Some of the other replies are also good rules of thumb as well.

 

[Mack Bishop]

talk to em, ignore em, challenge em whatever just dont worry about em.

 

[Andromax]

Have you ever watched The Upright Citizens brigade?
Really funny show, used to be on comedy central.


There was an episode about a rich guy, and his brother asked him how he could have the edge in a business deal with other "Alpha Male" investors. The rich guy gave his brother some generic advice, along the lines of a red tie, etc. His brother said No, he wanted a "secret weapon." So the rich guy finally told him that he has been stickin $30 in pennies up his ass for like the past 10 years and then spending them. He estimated that there were roughly 12,000,000 pennies in cirrulation that had been in his ass. Most people in his local area had inevitably come in contact with his ass pennies. He said that when he met someone that he would normally be intimidated by, he just shook his hand and laughed on the inside. "I mean, I haven't touched anything thats been in *HIS* ass, heh heh heh."

Basically what I'm trying to say, is that is silly, but the premise is the same. Who really gives a **** who they are, how much muscle they have. Thats all in your head, and when you learn to ignore all that sh!t, you wont really care if they think they are the alpha male, because they do have THEIR insecurities. Just remember that, and then dont worry about them. Drive on.

If you remember that it's all about you, your self improvement, your goals, your success and lessons learned, then you wont have to worry about them. And dont get physically violent with anyone. Around here that will land you in jail, and will solve nothing.

Andromax

 

[SheepSter]

The moment you start focussing on the other guy, you're already losing. Since your target is the one that should be on your mind. Ignore the other guy. Only concentrate on the HB. If you won't respond chances are nobody will get physical.

If this NFL linebacker touches you, kick him in the nuts.

 

[Jager_Boy]

If you have to ask this question...you arent an alpha...

 

[*29*]

Yeah, I was thinking short term, Jariel. You can't always win every battle in life. Fuk it, time for a shower.