How to deal with main plate when going away from college for Christmas break?

[CollegeMan22]

I’m leaving my college for a month to go out of state (across the country), but I have a main plate who I bang 4-5 days a week. I want to keep the vibe good enough so we can continue when I come back, but I don’t want to come across as needy. I’m thinking I just call her for 5-10 min a few times during break, if she doesn’t call me (unlikely). And send some memes and pictures, just not too often.

Just fyi, she’s definitely in my frame. She texted me today before we met up for the last time that she misses me with a crying face. Then after she left, she texted again saying she’ll miss me. I always get out of bed a few minutes after I come, and she basically begs me to stay. But I get up and she follows every time. I’m also the only guy who’s banged her, and I have taught her everything in bed. She’s a feminine Eastern European girl who hates feminism.

Basically, the question is how to keep the fire going as hot as possible while away for a month.

 

[CollegeMan22]

Dude you’ll be just fine….but you’re awfully young and something tells me you’re developing oneitis. Find two more plates to spin, would you?

Yeah, you’re right. She’s my only plate right now, but I’m working on getting more. I go for 2 new numbers every day, which helps. The act of approaching every day destroys my oneitis with the girl I’m with.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Only one month? You’re fine. I wouldn’t even call her. Just reciprocate when she hits you up. A month isn’t even a long time.

I still have ex plates randomly hit me up that I banged years ago. And I’m married now.

 

[CollegeMan22]

Only one month? You’re fine. I wouldn’t even call her. Just reciprocate when she hits you up. A month isn’t even a long time.

Good advice. Keep the aloofness going. She just texted me, asking me what I am doing. Answer: getting ripped at the gym.