"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to deal with hot girls at work? Need Advice

Romeo1

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Hey guys im new around here and well my ? is how do you guys deal with hot
girls at work?

By the way i work for an electronics store in a service dept and deal with all the departments,that have a lot of hot females.

Like today i made a mistake man i got a little jealous when saw this new guy was talking to this new girl i think is cute i acted a bit childish? Need advice:wave:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dannyrt34

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Well I used to not like to talk to co-workers. But I tried it a few times and it's really nothing bad. Well since you work together you see each other alot, so one day while your at work just talk like your two friends hangin out. Then ask if she'd like to go bowling or something on ---- night.

The only thing that can get messy with dating coworkers is if things don't go well. That sets you up for awkward moments at work.
 

Romeo1

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J roc

Really appreciate your advice.That s what i need.

Thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jitterbug

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J Roc said:
dont mess with co-workers!
It's a crappy temporary retail job, not a serious career. He can get another one in a flash.
 

Romeo1

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Jitterbug

What do you mean? regarding J roc


Lets hear your side of the story on this subject.


Im here to learn!
 

Jitterbug

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The common wisdom about not mixing business and pleasure (i.e banging/dating co-workers) only applies when you're in a serious job that is important to your career. It's just not worth it.

However, if you're just working some temp job while you're at college/uni or looking out for a good job, go for it. You're there all day with the chicks who are just as bored of working as you are. Might as well have some fun together.
 

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Jitterbug

Your totally right!.This Job is important to me.
For 2 weeks i been a little confused wondering
if i should go for chicks, cause man it sure is
tempting,but wat you said makes sence.
Thanks:rockon:
 

Duffdog

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I nailed all the hot girls when I worked at Chuck-E-Cheeses 8 years ago-- that job really didn't matter to me at all and the management just sort of let it go after the first two girls. The only thing is, I don't think I would make anything serious out of a work relationship. If you do and people can see it, then theres all kinds of HR bs that happens. If its just fun and you like it, go for it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alle_Gory

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J Roc said:
dont mess with co-workers!
Ya seriously. I've done this.

It makes things awkward at work, with your co-workers too. Especially since I was the supervisor. :crackup:
 

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This job doesn't sound like a long-term career, so I say just treat it like you would any other chicks you're trying to bang. Just like at the bar, if you're the most confident, most fun to be around guy at work, you'll be the one banging the best looking chicks.

If this were a serious career-type job, I would say don't dip your pen in the company ink.
 

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if they drop something near you say OMG I can't belive you just threw that at me! and smile. That always goes down well (y)
 

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AKA FlEX

Yes man its important to my career cause i am a It tech full time and i need more experience than what i have,I want to make more money get a better job and later start my own business.:yes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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