How to deal with haters?

[mahon83050]

Well, I as I said before....the #1 thing men probably get jealous about is another man's woman or the amount of sex another man is getting. Hell, most bar/club fights are over women anyways.

I want to hear from all of you who are dating 7's and above.

What kind of nonsense do you have to deal with from other dudes? I am not talking about your friends, but strangers (most likely in a bar/club setting) Have any haters blantanty disrespected you or your girl out of jealousy?

I know attractive women are a dime a dozen, but you still have to deal with haters.

I ask this question since confrontation scares me, and I want to know what I am getting myself into if I date a 7 or above. Or....am I just being PARANOID?

 

[KnockoutJM]

all you have to do is talk back to them, in a calm manner.. When they are frustrated, or anyone for that matter is frustrated, if someone talks to them relaxed they automatically will get defensive, and if you really want to, say a subtle insult to get them away.

Just dont look angry or frustrated at all, as long as you look like you can control the situation, you won.

 

[ChrizZ]

Well, I as I said before....the #1 thing men probably get jealous about is another man's woman or the amount of sex another man is getting. Hell, most bar/club fights are over women anyways.

I want to hear from all of you who are dating 7's and above.

What kind of nonsense do you have to deal with from other dudes? I am not talking about your friends, but strangers (most likely in a bar/club setting) Have any haters blantanty disrespected you or your girl out of jealousy?

I know attractive women are a dime a dozen, but you still have to deal with haters.

I ask this question since confrontation scares me, and I want to know what I am getting myself into if I date a 7 or above. Or....am I just being PARANOID?

quit being a pu$$y. Sry but that´s the truth...

 

[Mr. Mystery II]

Well, I as I said before....the #1 thing men probably get jealous about is another man's woman or the amount of sex another man is getting. Hell, most bar/club fights are over women anyways.

I want to hear from all of you who are dating 7's and above.

What kind of nonsense do you have to deal with from other dudes? I am not talking about your friends, but strangers (most likely in a bar/club setting) Have any haters blantanty disrespected you or your girl out of jealousy?

I know attractive women are a dime a dozen, but you still have to deal with haters.

I ask this question since confrontation scares me, and I want to know what I am getting myself into if I date a 7 or above. Or....am I just being PARANOID?

You know what you do when another guy is hitting on your girl??? Smile. She is there with you!!

I've had guys hit on girls I'm with more times than I can remember, and I always just smile at it. It makes her feel good and I'm pretty confident that she isn't going anywhere so whatever. Girls are either embarrassed when it happens or tease me about it, either way I'm fine.

Relax, take it as a compliment to yourself.

E

 

[Axcell]

If you show you care so much, it will only make her drift away more. Take it easy man, I know many guys who flirt with my girl constantly. As long as she tells you about it, or does it in front of you.. I do not see how there is a lack of trust.
Besides, she knows that if she were to dump me, I would find another girl in a week. By putting on an easy going, confident face, she will notice that - "Hey, he doesn't seem to care too much.. he really does trust me. I better not let this guy go, otherwise he might find somebody else."

Look, girls will always have "guy" friends - it's normal. Sometimes they tease and play with each other. Who cares?
Unless she is doing any sexual actions with other guys, I wouldn't take any action. If you see her making out, kissing, etc with another guy, than that is a different story.

FYI: By acting irritated that she talks to a lot of guys and flirts with them, you are turning her off more towards you. Remember that.

 

[bachelor]

Haters suck let's be real. I like to call some of them swoopers because they are more interested in your girl then really hating on you. I once had this guy who called me out to other girls saying I just hooked up with them and would never talk to them again. I would play off of it but never act too serious. I think girls can read that so the more laid back you are about it the better!