How To Deal With Guys Threatening/Trying To Fight You

[Ratiocinative]

Stop dating so many black women. Most Black women are low quality because of the bad choices they make and the people they hang out with.

My test for dating black women is how many black friends she. Blacks make up ~13% of the country and ~21% of my city. If her facebook or OLD or IG shows 75-100% of her friends are black that's a dead giveaway she's part of black thug culture.

Last black girl I went out was kinda country type. Lots of white friends, wore jeans and plaid shirts or skirts. Didn't work out, but she was cool. No thug exs or baby daddies.

Don't date women who bring drama into your life, even if the drama isn't directly their fault.

 

[TheGambino]

Take boxing lessons asap. I box for over 10 years and I feel like I could win a fight from 99% of the people on the streets. Im boxed a couple of real matches in a ring and won most. This will make you very confident in threats, so confident that you will always try to avoid fights in a confident way because you know you will break your opponent after 1 combo and you will end up in jail and him in the hospital so you rather avoid it.

 

[exhausted]

Take boxing lessons asap. I box for over 10 years and I feel like I could win a fight from 99% of the people on the streets. Im boxed a couple of real matches in a ring and won most. This will make you very confident in threats, so confident that you will always try to avoid fights in a confident way because you know you will break your opponent after 1 combo and you will end up in jail and him in the hospital so you rather avoid it.

exactly, I still box for exercise and spar regularly so I always remain composed mentally and sharp physically.
You are right about avoiding fights as well as you know what you can do to someone.
I spent a lot of money and a few months in jail long time ago for a fight.
last year on new years a dude started some **** w me as i was with a girl they knew, he had a bro and a few friends, i knew i have two choices, sit down and get that guy out harshly to where i would have damaged him for life to take on the other two guys, or just leave. seeing that i lost 8 thousand dollars years ago and i like my job and pay today and was not worth getting in trouble. i walked.
my mom always said i never start anything but always get in trouble for hurting someone.
at this age i like my money...

 

[TheGambino]

exactly, I still box for exercise and spar regularly so I always remain composed mentally and sharp physically.
You are right about avoiding fights as well as you know what you can do to someone.
I spent a lot of money and a few months in jail long time ago for a fight.
last year on new years a dude started some **** w me as i was with a girl they knew, he had a bro and a few friends, i knew i have two choices, sit down and get that guy out harshly to where i would have damaged him for life to take on the other two guys, or just leave. seeing that i lost 8 thousand dollars years ago and i like my job and pay today and was not worth getting in trouble. i walked.
my mom always said i never start anything but always get in trouble for hurting someone.
at this age i like my money...

Same exact thing for me. 5 years ago was the last time I was in a real fight on the streets. Long story short some kid disrespected me hard, we only screamed to eachother. Then he had some sort of a stick and he hit my friend and me with it, I lost 2 halves of my front teeth, which i got fixed ofcourse. I ran after him and beat the crap out of him with blood on my t-shirt from my own mouth bleeding after the hit with the stick. A left jab, right hook, a left uppercut and finished with a hard heavy 180 pounds right hook. He passed out and the police picked me up from my house the next day, he had a concussion in his brains from what Ive heard from the police and his nose needed a small surgery. I spent 5 days in jail and had to pay 1500 euros fine. After that I think 100times before fighting, I will avoid it all costs until people reach my boundary when it realy gets bad ofcourse. Ive been on the police station about 10-12 times in my life, all for fights on the streets until my 21th now im chill.

TOTALLY NOT WORTH IT, AVOID FIGHTS AT ALL COSTS, ALWAYS!

 

[exhausted]

Same exact thing for me. 5 years ago was the last time I was in a real fight on the streets. Long story short some kid disrespected me hard, we only screamed to eachother. Then he had some sort of a stick and he hit my friend and me with it, I lost 2 halves of my front teeth, which i got fixed ofcourse. I ran after him and beat the crap out of him with blood on my t-shirt from my own mouth bleeding after the hit with the stick. A left jab, right hook, a left uppercut and finished with a hard heavy 180 pounds right hook. He passed out and the police picked me up from my house the next day, he had a concussion in his brains from what Ive heard from the police and his nose needed a small surgery. I spent 5 days in jail and had to pay 1500 euros fine. After that I think 100times before fighting, I will avoid it all costs until people reach my boundary when it realy gets bad ofcourse. Ive been on the police station about 10-12 times in my life, all for fights on the streets until my 21th now im chill.

TOTALLY NOT WORTH IT, AVOID FIGHTS AT ALL COSTS, ALWAYS!

That is ridiculous that u got in trouble when this guy used a weapon. Typical.
I'm with ya.
It is just not worth it to lose a job and a home on a stranger these days.
Unless i have to defend myself i will just walk away save my money and enjoy my freedom. Ha.

 

[Roober]

In 34 years, never had a reason to get in a fight. I have never had men blatantly hit on my previous women, also never really gotten into close confrontations. Maybe with the new alpha behaviors, I may encounter more of this if I hit on a dude's girl. Not sure how I would handle that to be honest...

 

[TheGambino]

In 34 years, never had a reason to get in a fight. I have never had men blatantly hit on my previous women, also never really gotten into close confrontations. Maybe with the new alpha behaviors, I may encounter more of this if I hit on a dude's girl. Not sure how I would handle that to be honest...

Some people have a auro or karma of positiveness, others call off the ''boss'', ''alpha'' in a wrong way type of auro, look, behavior.

Please stick with your own postive, relaxed self. I love people who are 100% zen, positive and loving, we need more of those. You don't need that, be yourself as you handled it in your life and just be a DJ with the women. The moment you have to fight over a woman thats not the mother of your children or your not married with always walk, not worth it unless she lives in your house, cooks you dinner and washes your clothes ofcourse.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Take boxing lessons asap. I box for over 10 years and I feel like I could win a fight from 99% of the people on the streets. Im boxed a couple of real matches in a ring and won most. This will make you very confident in threats, so confident that you will always try to avoid fights in a confident way because you know you will break your opponent after 1 combo and you will end up in jail and him in the hospital so you rather avoid it.

I absolutely agree. One of the biggest benefits to learning how to fight is that you end up avoiding fights. People who don't train have a hard time understanding that, but it's very true. Most of the guys I knew from mma had a background of getting into street and bar fights, but that always ended once they started training and competing. Even though their skills went up from the training, it opened their eyes to the fact that they were not actually nearly the badass that they used to think they were. Competition quickly teaches that there is always someone better than you out there somewhere.

The last time I thought it was a good idea to punch a guy at a bar, it was only because I thought he had a gun. But I was still waiting for him to reach for it, when the bouncers grabbed us. That's what extreme circumstances it takes to not get into trouble for hitting someone, at least here in the US. You may only do it after they pull out a gun or a knife. Even if you don't get charges pressed, if the cops and bar owner are mad at you, the cops will likely just throw you in jail for three days and then let you go without pressing charges. That happens a lot in bigger cities, which of course also have the most unpleasant county jails.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Been a bouncer for years. No fights. Am I a badass, nope. Do I radiate confidence and unconcern wherever I go, hell yes.

If you are hitting on someone in front of their boyfriend or husband you have backed the boyfriend or husband into a corner where they have to react somehow.

There is no legal system on the planet that says if you or people you are with are in genuine fear for their safety that you are not allowed to defend them.

An air of confidence will take you a long way. After all most of us don't have a label that shows how badass we are, only posture and attitude.

 

[BreezyB84]

Bro I've lived in majority black cities for like 95% of my life. Generally majorly homophobic; No one wants to fight a g*y dude--plus, it's plausible deniability for a guy to be seeing/hanging/apparently hitting on a girl right in front of him without being a threat.

This is absolutely false.

 

[BreezyB84]

Stop dating so many black women. Most Black women are low quality because of the bad choices they make and the people they hang out with.

My test for dating black women is how many black friends she. Blacks make up ~13% of the country and ~21% of my city. If her facebook or OLD or IG shows 75-100% of her friends are black that's a dead giveaway she's part of black thug culture.

Last black girl I went out was kinda country type. Lots of white friends, wore jeans and plaid shirts or skirts. Didn't work out, but she was cool. No thug exs or baby daddies.

Don't date women who bring drama into your life, even if the drama isn't directly their fault.

This is false to.I could.easily say the same thing about a ton of non African americans. This is a huge stereotype.

 

[Ratiocinative]

This is false to.I could.easily say the same thing about a ton of non African americans. This is a huge stereotype.

Stereotype is an overused word that has pretty much lost it's meaning these days, but call it whatever you want.

It's not false that ~75% of blacks are in single parent households, usually the mother.
It's not false that blacks commit a vastly disproportionate amount of crime.
It's not false that black males alone commit the majority of murder in the country.
It's not false that blacks have the highest unemployment rate and highest dropout rates.

Not saying there aren't plenty of great black men and women out there. In fact, all of my best friends in my life have been black (who just so happened to grow up in white neighborhoods in white schools with mostly white friends).

My point is that it is statistically impossible for 100% or even 50% of your friends to come from 12% of the population that commits the majority of crime and you still somehow claim you and all your friends are high quality people. If 85% of the people around you are white, latino, or asian, yet you only ever spend time socially with blacks, you're probably a racist.

 

[BreezyB84]

Stereotype is an overused word that has pretty much lost it's meaning these days, but call it whatever you want.

It's not false that ~75% of blacks are in single parent households, usually the mother.
It's not false that blacks commit a vastly disproportionate amount of crime.
It's not false that black males alone commit the majority of murder in the country.
It's not false that blacks have the highest unemployment rate and highest dropout rates.

Not saying there aren't plenty of great black men and women out there. In fact, all of my best friends in my life have been black (who just so happened to grow up in white neighborhoods in white schools with mostly white friends).

My point is that it is statistically impossible for 100% or even 50% of your friends to come from 12% of the population that commits the majority of crime and you still somehow claim you and all your friends are high quality people. If 85% of the people around you are white, latino, or asian, yet you only ever spend time socially with blacks, you're probably a racist.

I just wanted to kill that first stat bc it created an uproar in the black community . http://www.politifact.com/truth-o-meter.

Although the the numbers are still high, it's false. My point is there was a little bit of black bashing (it felt like that to me )in this post. I just wanted to nip it in the butt bc it's unfair to just throw out statements against african American due to certain stereotypes or In some cases "black fear". That's all I'm saying.. I didn't get to go to white school like some the others...My bad