How to deal with ex girlfriend when you keep seeing her

[SayWhat]

Hi

It's been four years since we broke up, during these four years there have been periods were we have seen each other rarely, which obviously made me feel better. But a couple of weeks ago we went on a trip (we have the same friend circle) and I've seen her for 7 days in a row. I came home and couldn't get her out of my mind, basically I almost felt the same as the moment we broke up.

During this holiday I ignored her to 'protect' her from me. If she said something to me, I answered as short as possible (which eventually lead her to get mad at me, which in turn made it worse for myself). But I want to know what I have to do next, I want to feel better and I know the best is to completely banish her, but this is impossible, I can't dump my friends just to not see her... But something has to happen, I can't seem to get over her if I keep seeing her.

Should I keep ignoring her? What should I do? (besides banging another girl or flirting with one, I've not arrived at that point yet).

 

[jay07]

Its been 4 years dude. I think it is time for you to bang out another girl. Youve been heartbroken for 4 years of which your ex has not made an attempt at reconcile, she dont want you and shes over the breakup. She was probably mad you act immature after 4 years of not being together. Im still friends with all my exes.

 

[Uncharted]

You're saying you haven't banged another girl in four years? That's your problem - not your ex. You'll forget about her when you're smashing some other chick.