Long story short, Im not that type of guy that believes fighting solves everything. In fact I rather avoid it all together. However I do believe in defending yourself and the people that you care about. Today me, my brother and a couple of friends were playing basketball at the park. This park usually attracts ALL types of people. Cool people, nice, werid, and those crazy "thugs" that loves to start trouble and listen to Rap and smoke weed on the court (Im not being sterotypical or racist because I'm black myself). Today we ran unto the "thugs"....ahhh the joy rite? lol
Basketball is a physical sport and ALOT of trash talking which I'm used too but it's certain ppl that takes it too far. Basically I was on the sideline (my team lost) and my bro's team was playing against the team with the "thugs". So team "thug" was started crying and complaining about fouls. My bro was telling them that they was on some bull and checking little baby touch fouls and then out of now these guys started getting loud and yelling at him like they wanted to fight him (it was one guy speciffically). I was getting prepare for anything because I didn't know if this guy was about to throw down or not because for my family I'll fight anyone, 1 or 5 guys it don't matter. But it show how ended and they just got up and lefted after the game.
I was just wondering how should a true Don Juan handled this situation? Because I'm down with fighting just to solve a problem. Too many times you be hearing about pointless fights ending with people getting shot or killed. I truely believe fighting is not the answer and that real adults should be able to work it out verbally not physically. How to you handle a angry idiot who is willing to fight you over a pick up game at the park? Thank you.
Basketball is a physical sport and ALOT of trash talking which I'm used too but it's certain ppl that takes it too far. Basically I was on the sideline (my team lost) and my bro's team was playing against the team with the "thugs". So team "thug" was started crying and complaining about fouls. My bro was telling them that they was on some bull and checking little baby touch fouls and then out of now these guys started getting loud and yelling at him like they wanted to fight him (it was one guy speciffically). I was getting prepare for anything because I didn't know if this guy was about to throw down or not because for my family I'll fight anyone, 1 or 5 guys it don't matter. But it show how ended and they just got up and lefted after the game.
I was just wondering how should a true Don Juan handled this situation? Because I'm down with fighting just to solve a problem. Too many times you be hearing about pointless fights ending with people getting shot or killed. I truely believe fighting is not the answer and that real adults should be able to work it out verbally not physically. How to you handle a angry idiot who is willing to fight you over a pick up game at the park? Thank you.