- One of my uncle and aunty knows my ambition to go into mobile app development and self employment, I've talked to their oldest son (who've told them) for a couple of months now and everytime I go to their house, they've just ignored and not acknowledged me.
Now their youngest son has a got a job (they didn't say what job), they just said he got a job and he's got a masters. It could be a ****ty job and probably is and they will exaggerate it.
They acknolwedged my sister but once again, failed to ackolwedge me for the late 6 times in a row because they know I could possibly be more successful than their son). I was treated very badly last christmas party.
The aunty, uncle and 2 of their youngest sons want me to fail and the youngest son is mocking me because he's brother got a job and thinks I'm a loser.
They will want to see a reaction out of me and they think I'm not clever enough about the whole thing.
They don't want to be the black sheep of the family.
How should I behave? They are looking for a reaction out of me and they will take the diss by saying "go to India to get married"?
Thanks
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How to deal with and respond to mean, disrespectful family members?
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