"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to deal with an attention *****

jiza101

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Funny story.
Theres this girl in my homeroom who is a huge attention *****. Anyway i found this attention ***** pic on internet and sent it to a mate. HE THEN showed the chick i said it was. So she joins the convo with me and my mate who sent it, then she starts questioning me and ****. Like we did you think it was me and **** im like cause it was funny. So im just waiting for tommoro for her bs at me. How should i handle this funny arse situtation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bombshell

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Ignore her for a while, and when she doesnt stop trying to talk to you say well you have been trying to get my attention for 10 minutes now, i think you have answered your own question.
 

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watch how successful people treat spoiled :D , oops
 

UltimateScoundrel

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Your best bet is to stab her in the face with a bayonet. I mean, you could take a chance, and tell her to **** off, or ignore her, but honestly, do you think you're ready for what could happen if that goes wrong?

Bayonet to the face.
 
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