"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to deal with aloof girls?

arcilitei34

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Well the story is in a nutshell, is this girl that im kinda interested in, we met, we hit it off, the next day we kinda had a few drinks, and almost had sex.
Ever since that day she's been acting really really distant, not really being the same person she used to be. I'm thinking i should just play the casual and pretend like nothing happened route, but im not too sure what to do.
We talked about what happened a few days later, I told her that she attempted to take advantage of me which was kinda funny. She then told me she couldnt remember anything at all, and then proceded to tell me that she liked me, but it was like a small crush. Still, im not quite sure what to do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ohiofutballa

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its simple, the girl does not want you to think she is a slut. This girl apparently met you yesterday, and you said you almost had sex, its awkward for her to be around you, since her real feelings came out. The truth of the matter is that the drunk person's actions are the sober person's thoughts.

She likes you theres no doubt, just play it off and dont really talk about it, itll be a touchy subject. Just treat it like it always was, and talk to her like you would. Like shootin fish in a barrel

Ohiofutballa:cool:
 

arcilitei34

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I'm trying to work the casual angle again and pretend as if nothing happened, i haven't been able to get a hold of her to talk lately, i don't know if its my luck or that if its her just ignoring me, but i'll find out later today, she said she'd give me a call, but i've gotta give her the benefit of a doubt on this one. I'm still questioning whether or not if she was being sincere on her telling me that she had a crush on me.
 

LikRetsam

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Test number one. Girl trying to take control. Deal with it as you please.
 
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