How to deal with a workplace full of cute girls

[Who Dares Win]

Long story short, right now Im working in a place where there are many goodlooking girls of which I woould like to get one in particular.

Unlike the other guys which work there I avoid the "funny vibe" and the attention giver one, which is pretty obvious is done only to get intimate with them, untill now I just did what I had to do and kept the interaction friendly but without showing any interest nor giving too much ground.

I guess the diffential in my behaviour compared to the ones of other guys scored me some point since I see most of the girls giving me extra care when I have some need, I guess they often speak among themselves and wonder why I didnt go after them like the other guys, to that add that my job is not exacly pretty clear to them, they see me randomly and interact with the other guys at different days and times.

I didnt do any special compliment nor given any special attention except to one with which I joke when I see her and the one I like which I told once that in her new uniform she looks much better than the old one.

Do you have any suggestion to give?

 

[SteR]

Well, they're just girls.. so if it was me I'd just make sure I have fun with them all and tease them a bit. Once you get one or two warming to you you'll find it snowballs a bit since women seem to act with a herd mentality..

 

[Uncharted]

Well there's the whole "don't sh!t where you eat" but as long as you don't become a stalker or cause a bunch of drama it should be ok.

I just smile and hold eye contact with every good looking women I work with. They all flirt back, but I also don't have any interest in them, so it probably shows. The one girl I flirted hardcore with gave me her number but I found out she had a boyfriend through one of her coworkers. That's too much drama for me for an office situation so I just told her to call me when she's single.

Just have fun, don't be outcome dependent, and most importantly don't let flirting get in the way of your JOB.

 

[Uncharted]

Once you get one or two warming to you you'll find it snowballs a bit since women seem to act with a herd mentality..

This is DEFINITELY true. There were two women who didn't like me at first now they smile and say hi whenever they see me. It's because their coworkers were flirting with me, and I now have a higher social value.

 

[Smok1nAce]

sorry op, going a little off topic but my problem is working in a kitchen full of women who are low-class and ugly. should i flirt?

one fat girl always touches me when i make my unfunny jokes.
another girl asked me to take her on a date in my car (I drive a juguar).

 

[zinc4]

yep, women are sheep....could you ever imagine guys being the same way??? if a lot of guys were attracted to a girl that makes you feel more attracted to her?? it is mind boggling when you really think of it.....i would actually prefer a super hot girls that somehow no other guy wanted.....all that matters for guys with attraction is looks....girls value status and power combined with looks....i have had many girls.....conclusion guys are more practical and simple...women are crazy.....and weak minded...

 

[djjizzyjeff]

Well there's the whole "don't sh!t where you eat" but as long as you don't become a stalker or cause a bunch of drama it should be ok.

I just smile and hold eye contact with every good looking women I work with. They all flirt back, but I also don't have any interest in them, so it probably shows. The one girl I flirted hardcore with gave me her number but I found out she had a boyfriend through one of her coworkers. That's too much drama for me for an office situation so I just told her to call me when she's single.

Just have fun, don't be outcome dependent, and most importantly don't let flirting get in the way of your JOB.

This is true. Had the exact same thing happen to me. Gave me her number and even told me to text her yesterday though I heard from another dude who'd spoken to her previously in random conversation she'd mentioned having a boyfriend.

To the OP just be cordial, friendly, tease chicks a bit and flirt lightly..see how they react. Don't go overboard or they may smile and "appear" to like it but run behind your back and talk ish about you to other chicks or dudes.

I know for a FACT they do that as a few have told me personally about a few "creepers" I work with. They could just as well talk ish behind my back too but it's all good. lol.

You can always ask one chick (the one you mostly like) what she's doing that weekend with her boyfriend to find out for sure if she's single. Some won't mention the BF unless you SPECIFICALLY ask as they will play you for attention. Don't ask every chick out as they WILL network and talk about the dude who goes after anything in the job. (Especially if you aren't deemed the hottest dude they work with to which none would really care in that case.)

Most all the chicks where I work have boyfriends and I just keep it cool and cordial. IF they become single and they think you're cool they may come around but messing with chicks with bf's especially at work is risky.

 

[Uncharted]

Don't ask every chick out as they WILL network and talk about the dude who goes after anything in the job. (Especially if you aren't deemed the hottest dude they work with to which none would really care in that case.)

Most all the chicks where I work have boyfriends and I just keep it cool and cordial. IF they become single and they think you're cool they may come around but messing with chicks with bf's especially at work is risky.

rep for this.

if you are going to ask one out, make sure its only one. They will tell their coworkers and you will get a rep for trying to game girls at work if you're asking them all out. You don't want that rep at a job you need to get paid!

I would only ask a girl out if they were highly interested in me. Otherwise, organize a happy hour and invite a group of girls out. Then make sure you talk to the specific girl you want and gauge her interest.

 

[djjizzyjeff]

rep for this.

if you are going to ask one out, make sure its only one. They will tell their coworkers and you will get a rep for trying to game girls at work if you're asking them all out. You don't want that rep at a job you need to get paid!

I would only ask a girl out if they were highly interested in me. Otherwise, organize a happy hour and invite a group of girls out. Then make sure you talk to the specific girl you want and gauge her interest.

+1 rep for that. We do that at my part time. A bunch of us dudes will plan to go out on a friday or saturday after work and usually a bunch of the chicks will go too. Usually those same chicks will ask who's going and you can see the looks on their faces if certain office "creepers" are going..EVEN IF they are a good looking dude. The dudes who go after everything the word DOES get out and they literally ignore them or give them dirty looks if they try to approach and then go and talk about them even more with the other chicks.

You can also ask them to do things for you. Like get coffee if they're going etc. I do that sh1t all the time. Make them give me samples of cologne, shaving cream etc. While they do it we just bs, joke tease them a bit. and keep it moving so as not to come off like a thirsty pervert. Especially with hot chicks. They are used to desperate h0rndogs and they will talk about them with any chick they know.

If you think you're going to be "alpha" and do what you want regardless..they will all trash you around the place as not a "player" but a loser. Fact.


It's amazing how bold some will get when they have the BF security blanket. I've had one chick tell me "I'd bet you are a nasty fvck" and wanted me to bang her. Married and was 23. Not going there. Chick was nuts too. Everyone knew it. Another one with a boyfriend who was really cool had told me I was bad and she wanted to spank my azz. She got fired for stealing.

I don't waste time with chicks with boyfriends especially married. But you'd be amazed how many will flirt relentlessly with many different dudes at work even if taken. f that noise.