"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how to deal with a lier....

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Pancho84

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Hey everyone
ok so I've been emailing with this young lady back and forth. Got all the right vibes, bladibla. Anyhow, sent her an email on friday and a followup(mentioned on fridays email) on saturday about us going out yesterday. With this particular email system you can check if the person has read or not the email you have sent and if they have logged in. This chick read the messages on the day they were sent(each on friday and saturday) and was on sunday AND yesterday... Anyhow, here's the email she sent me today as a reply to friday's and saturday's email... and the big question to you all is how do you deal with a lier? BTW, have you ever read bigger bs than this! its hilarious.. lol

Should I: Follow along and not say anything
or -- tell her how it is and that my time is too valuable to be wasted in this manner...???

here it is:


Hey there,
How r u? Sry for the late reply. but i wan't able to get your message until now. Im also very sry about not be able to meet up eit u. Had i got the message sooner, i wouldve certaintly call u and let u kno that i would be able to meet up yesterday. My computer was not wrkin properly and ws very slow so thats why i wasnt able to respond back to ur message any sooner.
I had to stay home wit my mom--she has very sick lately. And there would had been a chance for me to leave her. My sisters had left out of town durin the weekend and i was the only one left to care for her until she got well. And what was worse, was my cuz and i were planning to come 2gether---and hang out yesterday--but she was also very sick and had to go the hosiptal. So either way, i would've been stuck. However, that does not mean that i dont wanna meet u---i do. So hopefully, if not this wk, not wk we should get 2gether. And i do have ur ., so i will defintely give u a call. I would give u my ., but the fone i have is temp, and ill be gettin a new . soon--whens soon, i dunno. SO, hows everything goin? Anything new? as for here, not much, just the same thing jus a different day.
BTW---i still havent found out what that phrase meant---can u jus tell, please? Alrite buddy, ill ttul.....i got ge back back to wrk.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Christ, that chick can't even spell. If I were you, I'd stay away from her because her family is obviously diseased. Just tell her you'd prefer not to catch whatever disease is running rampant in her family and you'll go see other people.
 
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haha, whatever you say dawg... Cause girls go and done do that all the time...especially in this context...

Man, you dont even done know if she lie it could am be the truth..you dont know that...let it go.
 
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Maybe the computer thing is true.

It has happened to me.

I've clicked on my mail - but it's never opened because my system has so many pop-up's that is just sometimes dies.

Whatever.

At any rate the b#tch can't spell or write.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ Mission..Hello.. HELLO

Read his post carefully. This is the forumla:
He got read receipts for his email + She say she never read it till now = Lying Biatch
 
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thanks guys but how should I reply to her - blow her off, tell her that i know what really hapenned and its not necessary, or tell her that i know whats up and i dont have time for that bs...

?????

anyone else?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ok confusion with a capital C...
so I didnt reply to her email at all, i was contemplating how to respond to it and besides I just had not had the time.. anyhow
so tonight i was about to head to class and... ring ring.. wtf who has that number? hello?

anyhow, so she called tonight, she was very pleasant
at first was a bit shy, but then she warmed up real quick, cant really blame her since it was our first time on the phone. Note, that she called. Anyhow, I cut the convo short since I had to go to class told herto call me at a certain time since I thought i would get out early but didnt and the area where I was at doesnt get cell signal.. anyhow, apparently she called while I was down there. Then she called again but I was on the phone and when I switched lines she was gone. About an hour later I called and she didnt pick up. Then 20 min later, she called me back and apparently she was having dinner. Anyhow, we talked for like 20 min, and I will admit she warmed up real nice and quite honestly sounded like a very grounded person which I was glad to see. But whats up with the email now?

I'm getting good responses, we even said we would go out sometime soon but probably not this week(she suggested next week however..) And she said she would call me perhaps tomorrow. Anyhow, wtf is this about, my brain has officially short circuited... dang women are weird at times lol
 
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