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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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How to deal with a group of models

eezyz

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So I first joined this forum 6 years ago back in high school, Then I sorta drifted and left after I got into a long term relationship and been out of the game for 2 years. Now I am hoping to get back into the game.

Long story short I work in a resort at a tropical location, and we're going to have aroud 40 hot young fashion models coming to stay my resort. I am hoping to game some of these women but I've been out of the game for a while so I am abit rusty..

Just wondering how would you fellow DJs go about this? They're having a pool party on new years eve and I will be working at the pool bar of the resort.

Any tips would be great! such as smooth things to say etc..how to number or f*** close..

cheers guys!
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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eezyz said:
Any tips would be great! such as smooth things to say etc..how to number or f*** close..

cheers guys!

lol.....
 

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eezyz said:
So I first joined this forum 6 years ago back in high school, Then I sorta drifted and left after I got into a long term relationship and been out of the game for 2 years. Now I am hoping to get back into the game.

Long story short I work in a resort at a tropical location, and we're going to have aroud 40 hot young fashion models coming to stay my resort. I am hoping to game some of these women but I've been out of the game for a while so I am abit rusty..

Just wondering how would you fellow DJs go about this? They're having a pool party on new years eve and I will be working at the pool bar of the resort.

Any tips would be great! such as smooth things to say etc..how to number or f*** close..

cheers guys!
Working behind the bar?

Shooting fish in a barrel my friend! You dont even need to have game - Seriously! No really!

Eye contact and a nice smile gets you halfway there. Whichever one takes your fancy/ whichever one is closest at midnight - grab them and go for the new years kiss! i used to do it year in and year out. Just be a great barman (I take it you can do that) and flirt a little. Chances are one will come to find you!
 

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Purefilth said:
Working behind the bar?

Shooting fish in a barrel my friend! You dont even need to have game - Seriously! No really!

Eye contact and a nice smile gets you halfway there. Whichever one takes your fancy/ whichever one is closest at midnight - grab them and go for the new years kiss! i used to do it year in and year out. Just be a great barman (I take it you can do that) and flirt a little. Chances are one will come to find you!
Haha that is ****ing true or be a loser dj and still pull girls while being a chode.
 

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Don't put those girls on a pedestal, a lot of guys do that and end up kissing those girls ass which end ups slotting them into the friend zone.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bossman90 said:
Don't put those girls on a pedestal, a lot of guys do that and end up kissing those girls ass which end ups slotting them into the friend zone.

Yes you're exactly right, I have seen photos of these women and they are HOT! like the ones you see on fashion shows on TV, so they would be used to guys hitting on them and putting them on the pedestal..

Hence why I am asking for advice on how you guys would go about approaching this..things like negs? or C+F etc since I've out of the game for a while I want to know if there are any good examples of them that you guys would use for this type of situation..

I am usually pretty confident around women, but being out of the game for some time made me not as confident..especially when the subjects are a large group of supermodels..things like the number of beautiful women (around 40-50) as well as the potential competition ie. male hotel guests etc..the party will be busy so I prob won't get too many chances to chat them up so I want to make them count..something that leaves a lasting impression and they will be thinking of me and eventually come back and find me at the bar etc..
 
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