How to deal with a ****-Blocker whom is my target's manager?

[charlezz]

Since years i last posted, here goes.

Long Story short,
I am a successful young executive driving a high-end car (No braggings intended)

I used to be in very good terms with a night-club service manager (Hot Babe!) until i find her full of nonsense; I have decided to next her; ignoring all her messages and calls. Not going for the F-close becoz she is too full of nonsense.

I was in the drinking club the next day and talking to this newly joined waitress whom happens to live in the same apartment as the manager and some other colleagues.

This waitress and I have built up rapport immediately; I was on the top of my game; very funny and ****y and she dig it. We were so into one another that we have started to have intimate talks. Afterwhich I realised that the club Manager is extremely jealous and begin messaging me things like "I am angry and i feel that you like this waitress a lot"

Soon after, the waitress started avoiding me (360 degree change) and message things like "Sorry I can't get too close to you.. My manager is not happy and I don't want to create any conflict with my manager as i need the job and we are living in the same apartment". This fact is then verified by her colleagues whom happen to my guy friend's Girlfriend.

Apparently, she totally stop contacting me and avoiding me in the club the next day.. I do message her afterwhich and she respond via message.

I do not want to get involved in their little commotion and create additional conflicts for the waitress; Originally, i wanted to confront the manager about it but it will only do bad for the waitress so I think better not....

My intention is to ask her out out of her working hours for a dinner or so; but apparently, she seems really afraid of her manager and she doesn;t want dramas and she does need her job badly (comes from poor family).

Suggestions?

 

[charlezz]

Additional info; the manager confronted the waitress and said... "How can you snatch my customer away?"

The waitress although avoiding me, I can see her eyes glancing at me every now and then.

 

[Boilermaker]

lost cause, forget it.

 

[iwanttofight]

geez, I would not mess with this womans job though just next her

 

[charlezz]

What a waste... No other solutions?

 

[zekko]

You say her manager was messaging you? Do you mean texting? Are you friends with this guy or something? How does he have your number?

I agree with the others though, why mess with the girl's job? You should be able to find a better situation without all these complications.

 

[charlezz]

You say her manager was messaging you? Do you mean texting? Are you friends with this guy or something? How does he have your number?

I agree with the others though, why mess with the girl's job? You should be able to find a better situation without all these complications.

Yes, texting I mean

Her manager is a lady, hot babe in fact whom is close to me (occasional kissing hugging)

The waitress just called me and asked me to stop contacting her again. She is facing much pressure from her manager.

 

[charlezz]

In short, the manager likes me a lot and extremely jealous of me showing interest in her staff rather than her.

 

[zekko]

Oh, I see. I read that wrong. I was thinking the manager was a guy who was wanting this chick for himself. My mistake.

 

[charlezz]

Oh well, since the waitress insisted I not contact her due to her manager. I will next both of them. And even not go to the same club. Urgg

 

[scrouds]

Work the manager, get her into bed, her bed. Then stick your diick in 1 inch, stop, put your clothes on and leave.

Just for the lols.

 

[Boilermaker]

^ that's easier said than done.

OP sounds like a decent guy who has "well-mannered person" qualities with a well-tempered "alpha" touch.


this sort of low, player moves won't suit him and won't be worthwhile of his time.

I say, next and focus on new adventures, big waste though you are right.

 

[charlezz]

Thanks for the compliment. Boilermaker. Indeed, low player moves doesn't suit me. I am more on the cool gentleman direction whom takes no nonsense from ladies.

Updates, didn't contact any of them. However, my company department regularly have events at the same club, next Monday our department will be there. I will be cool and indifferent on all reactions.

The only sour feeling that I admitted I have; I lose this girl due to external factors I couldn't control, not because I am an AFC or whatsoever. It's due to a jealous lady manager.. What a joke..

I will go to the event and enjoy myself; any positive progression shall be a bonus

 

[vatoloco]

"Sorry I can't get too close to you.. My manager is not happy and I don't want to create any conflict with my manager as i need the job and we are living in the same apartment".

I know women to be cryptic and shit but it doesn't get any more direct than this. She is flat out saying she's not interested. Well, NOT AS interested. She is more interested in keeping her job you than in you. And I don't blame her. I'd do the same thing. No matter how attracted I am to a female at work, I am not going to jeopardize my employment (and my ability to eat!) just to tap a piece of ass.

I am a successful young executive driving a high-end car (No braggings intended)

If this is true, you should have no problems spinning multiple plates and not worry too much about this one.

 

[charlezz]

vatoloco, dead right. She has delivered a very direct message which somehow strike me and I sincerely want to give her an applause for such brutal honesty.

Girls are known to play games and keep guys thinking.

To be honest, I really like this trait of hers although it kinda hurts. Lol!