how to deal with a bad breakup?

[intellectual-apeman]

ok here's the deal.... i was with this girl for almost a year and we had yeah, quarrels and fights bla bla bla.... i would refuse to talk to her until she calms down and tries to make things better... I was in the upperhand all this while cos i'm not desparate for her affection or anything.

A week back we had a quarrel over some small matter but she blew it up and again i walked off and this time she got really pissed of and she texted me saying that "U are not a man to stand and talk and solve things with me" i think its more of standing there and taking in the verbal abuse so why should i listen to her boosheeeet!

There was a lot of hate smses sent to me but i choose to ignore her and not answer her call. I guess its her last resort to gain her power back and she says that she is breaking up with me!!!

hahaha i mean go ahead.. i dun lose anything, i would love to have the relationship to go on but then again nah! i think she'll be a liability in the future but it was fun whilst it lasted.

She is really confused cause sometimes she texts me stuff like she wants me back and even ask me that i should be patient and she'll look for me when she's got her self straigtened out. I would just ignore it and carry on with my life and meeting other girls cause its her decision to break up not mine. I mean "let's get on with it". I'm ready.

It gets messier cause of me ignoring her, and now she wants her things that she gave me as gifts during my b'day, anniversary and stuff back. I think thats a load of crap cause i could claim lots of money off her if i had asked for my share back too!! She's asking her gal pal to meet me and pick up the things.

SO WHAT U GUYS SAY??? thanks for the comments

 

[ElChoclo]

If you like any of the stuff and its worth something just keep it. If its junk and you don't want it, give it back, why worry. This comment is on the assumption that you did not live together and the stuff consists purely of gifts not jointly acquired items.

 

[intellectual-apeman]

well yeah they are just gifts not much, just a leather belt and a pair of shoes that's all and oh a softtoy cat or sumthin.
And god bless me that we were not staying together.
I could return them easily but have no time now.. but this Beetch is turnin psycho man!
she trying to get my attention or wat?? How to deal with this man..

 

[donpepot]

well so far your doing everything fine...so what do you want?what is your question?

 

[intellectual-apeman]

yeah she wants me back.... from her emails and smses, there were hints but i i think i won't budge...
timeout with the boys had never been more fun and soon i'll be spinning more plates..

ok ques is: if she comes back on her hands and feet, what should i do? i like the relationship but her temper is one thing that that she has to change.... this is the dilemma :crazy:

 

[KontrollerX]

You dodged a bullet by getting rid of this broad oh and...

Don't return anything.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

She gave it to you, it's yours.

 

[intellectual-apeman]

She gave it to you, it's yours.

hahahah i like that... anyway i'll just ignore her

 

[donpepot]

well if she came back..well im surely it will..add her to your plates man...and dont ever be taken for granted