"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to Deal With a 9-10 w/ all Guy Friends

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheWolfMan

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Hate the game.. said:
Dude the key is have fun, and show your strengths. If she sees you having a blast and doing what you love/ are passionate about she'll respond. LET HER COME TO YOU ON THIS ONE. Don't give special attention to her or do some lame ass attempt at trying to suck up to her. I feel like a lot of guys on this forum forget that by having a great time it shows on the surface, and is literally one of the biggest turn-ons for a girl.
Agree with this, I would go but focus on just having fun and play it cool. She'll notice, and you will be different then the rest of the pack who are relentlessly tryin to game her. I would bring up the whole sausage fest in the hot tub thing while you guys are there, might set you up for an opportunity to isolate her and get some one-on-one time. Or if everybody plans on going out, you should suggest that you guys stay at the place and hit the hot tub in a playful way, maybe something like "Don't really feel like going out tonight...so about that fun in the hot tub you promised..." The fact that everybody is looking to you to teach them how to snowboard makes you seem pretty alpha in her eyes already.
 

vatoloco

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Robert28 said:
Just tell her "Nah, sounds like a sausage fest to me."
Fixed! ;)

6+ erect dicks pointing toward this one chick, feeding her attention and getting blue balls at best? No thanks.

But hey, if you're a fuckin' tool, knock yourself out...
 

st_99

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To me, it sounds like a fun time from a pure social perspective so i would just go, have fun, make a couple new friends and have zero expectations about fvcking this girl but at the same time gaming her and trying to bed her without getting upset if you fail. can you handle that? if so, go, if not dont go. plus be open to the fact that she may fvck some dude while you're there.
 
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