"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how to deal wit grl who gets made fun ov alot

dawg89

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how do u get wit a grl who sum1 is always cracking jokes on like would you still neg hit her or show her alot of affection like the other way arounds where you neghit her and everyone shows affection to?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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neg hits should be kept for high and mighty *****es stuck on a pedestal just to knock em down. def not for regular use. if this girl is getting crapped on a lot all ready then she most likely isn't on a pedestal and therefore neg hits are unnecessary.
 

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they are prolly worse in that case because her shield will go up since you are like everyboyd else. The point is NOt to be like everybody else. i doubt she will crap on you if you act nice to her. Once you get to know her better then tease her
 

Jack McCrack

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Learn to f*cking spell, man.

If I hadn't read your username, I would've thought you were a girl on IM.
 

Fitch

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Was that necessiary? You are an average d1ck, seriously.

This is the internet -- not a History Term paper. I can assert that he can spell. You never consider the possiblities; 1) he could be in a rush SO HE ABBREVIATES, 2) Forums, in his opinion, aren't the place to be proper.



If I hadn't read your username, I would've thought you were a girl on IM.
And speaking of proper... You need to work on your grammar -- based on your post.

Please, BE CONSTRUCTIVE and be CONSIDERATE.

And note, this isn't a designated place to be punctual!

Dawg --

Since everyone is critizing her -- deviate from the "norm" and befriend her. Start a relationship. Be supportive. Be AFC; but don't abuse the 'AFC' -- do not be extreme.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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