“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have a day 2 coming up in a few days, but I'm not entirely sure if I want a relationship with this girl and would like to go out with other girls too.

Should I just tell her that I'm not exclusive at this point and I just want to see how things go?

I'm sure somebody on this forum has had a similar situation.

Thanks in advance!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You're not exclusive until she asks and you say yes. Just because you've gone on a date doesn't make you boyfriend and girlfriend. You could tell her you don't want to be exclusive if she hints at it, which may make her chase harder, or you can just avoid the question. But don't let this hold you back to spin other plates
 
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yup. i had the same situation. I think its better to bring it up and say outright that you're not exclusive yet and that you just want to see where things go. If you avoid talking about the issue, you're risking her assuming that you two ARE exclusive, and then when she finds out you are dating other girls you'll be in a world of sh*t and will have a lot of explaining to do. Girls don't think like guys do; even though you're not "official" she's still not going to be happy about it if you just start going after other girls. Better to have it cleared up and out of the way before you start asking out other girls.

oh and you said she's going away? she's DEFINITELY not going to be happy if she comes back and sees you're going out with other people. explain the situation to her before you start doing anything.

i hope its not too late.

EDIT: this is my post about when it happened with me, maybe you recall it

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=174845
 
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