"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how to dance 1 on 1, need advice!

Seismos

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i made another thread where i told you that im going to party with a girl i dont know yet! Im worried because i never danced a whole evening with 1 girl.


usually if i dance with a female friend its only for one or two songs...

so im afraid that i run out of moves, please help me, the date is tomorrow night!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pillag3r

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Only advice i can give is to watch a couple movies with John Travolta. Like Pulp Fiction or grease...but not saturday night fever.

You can also check out dirty dancing/save the last dance...or other related films.
 

J-Bone

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watch a little of everything and take not on little moves hidden in the dance and try to remember as much as possible and practice them each by each in a mirror even if its picking your leg up and twisting. practice that one move say 3-5 minutes and after you kinda get a feel for each move start dancing like you naturally do and try to add some of them in. dont add them all at once but sorta play with it have fun. practice in a mirror and see what looks good. and try not to be all in sequence but rather feel your dancing.
 

bob2007

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Just check out how everyone else is dancing. I used to think like you. But now I feel like probably 60% of people in the clubs don't even know how to dance well either.

I've only been to a few clubs. But the last time I went I felt good about dancing. You gotta be with the right people. The friends I was with got liquored up a bit, so it was a lot easier and you become more carefree.

Enjoy yourself and she will too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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