"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How to create value or DHV?
- Thread starter deltoro86
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
-Have access to and date attractive women.
-Are a leader of and respected by men.
Just slip something into conversation that gives this impression. If you're talking about strippers, mention how you used to date a stripper and she was crazy, or something like that. Make it funny and not like you're bragging. So don't go on about it.
You also need to make sure you don't do anything that lowers your value. You can lower her perceived value to you with negs, which are basically minor, superficial insults that are humourous.
Scars
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Once you know it then become it. You'll know how high value men behave and the more you copy that you'll make it a habit and it'll become natural.
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That being said, if you're looking to better your personality, that will be your strongest asset to you in field.
Start cold approaching, that will be your stepping stone to everything else.
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/05/impact-approach-30-seconds-to-make-it.html
You're in socal, the PUA capital of the world, best place to do it.
-Kevin
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ALPHAROMEO
Banned
She ll think " STOCKHOLM ?THIS GUY MUST BE IMPORTANT
or slip in at the beginning ' i ve this BUSINESS seminar to lead or conduct in a minute so i m very much in a hurry
STATUS impresses women ( check out THE EVOLUTION OF DESIRE by DAVID BUSS GOOGLE )