"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to create value or DHV?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Captain

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The general idea is to give the impression that you:

-Have access to and date attractive women.
-Are a leader of and respected by men.


Just slip something into conversation that gives this impression. If you're talking about strippers, mention how you used to date a stripper and she was crazy, or something like that. Make it funny and not like you're bragging. So don't go on about it.

You also need to make sure you don't do anything that lowers your value. You can lower her perceived value to you with negs, which are basically minor, superficial insults that are humourous.
 

Scars

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Captain pretty much got it dead on. Just don't do or say anything that would make her think less of you in her eyes. Just keep the you're the "prize" attitude. It also doesn't hurt to go into story time. I know a lot of the game me and my boy run has a lot to do with our crazy adventurous stories we tell. But when you're a great story teller and speak with enthusiasm, you can even make the last time you took a sh!t sound exciting. My only main tip here is to ease up on the negs if you're trying to DHV, let your actions speak for themselves.
 

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Know what it is first of all. Do you know any charactistics of high value men? How they behave in certain situations etc?


Once you know it then become it. You'll know how high value men behave and the more you copy that you'll make it a habit and it'll become natural.
 

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You can't just conjure up value out of nowhere. If you're talking passive value, having money, lots of friends, hot women around you, that doesn't just come over night, those are things that takes lots of work to acquire.

That being said, if you're looking to better your personality, that will be your strongest asset to you in field.

Start cold approaching, that will be your stepping stone to everything else.

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/05/impact-approach-30-seconds-to-make-it.html

You're in socal, the PUA capital of the world, best place to do it.

-Kevin
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JUST SAY THAT YOU RE IN A HURRY YOU GOT A FLIGHT TO EUROPE LATER IN THE MORNING

She ll think " STOCKHOLM ?THIS GUY MUST BE IMPORTANT

or slip in at the beginning ' i ve this BUSINESS seminar to lead or conduct in a minute so i m very much in a hurry

STATUS impresses women ( check out THE EVOLUTION OF DESIRE by DAVID BUSS GOOGLE )
 
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