"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to create sex appeal

NeedToImprove

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imagine a guy who has 0 sex appeal. Is sex appeal something you are born with or is a trait created and developed in our life?

if someone can point me out some interesting reads and tips about the subject besides the dj bible i appreciate it
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I believe it's both. I think that you can have physical sex appeal (be attractive) or mental sex appeal (confidence), and you can only develop mental sex appeal (aside from something like being well dressed or working out; but you can't make your face more attractive). Unfortunately, I don't have any books or anything that discuss this.

Note: I don't claim to have a high position in the community, so this isn't a very sound answer--just my opinion.
 
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DoctorCoops said:
I believe it's both. I think that you can have physical sex appeal (be attractive) or mental sex appeal (confidence), and you can only develop mental sex appeal (aside from something like being well dressed or working out; but you can't make your face more attractive). Unfortunately, I don't have any books or anything that discuss this.

Note: I don't claim to have a high position in the community, so this isn't a very sound answer--just my opinion.
I have some comments. Yes, you can trememdously improve your sex appeal.

You can go from a crappy or terribly fat body to a very built one.

You can improve your confidence and swagger.

And your face can improve, because if you have a fat face or a face with no self esteem, a confident face looks better.

Since you are a male women put a high premium on your body and confidence, your face don't need all that, they just want a lot of confidence.
 

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DaddyLongShanks said:
I have some comments. Yes, you can trememdously improve your sex appeal.

You can go from a crappy or terribly fat body to a very built one.

You can improve your confidence and swagger.

And your face can improve, because if you have a fat face or a face with no self esteem, a confident face looks better.

Since you are a male women put a high premium on your body and confidence, your face don't need all that, they just want a lot of confidence.
I agree, but I was talking about like maximum sex appeal--like model status. In that case, an attractive face matters. In the real world, though, you can easily get by with a nice body and a confident demeanor.
 

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Look at bodybuilder bodies - and then just the head.The head is like .... mmm ... average Joe ... or Bob from accounting ... or daddy .... but body is pure sex.Now combine head and body and you go from Mr NobodySpecial to MrIThinkIwill****ThisGuy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NeedToImprove said:
imagine a guy who has 0 sex appeal. Is sex appeal something you are born with or is a trait created and developed in our life?

if someone can point me out some interesting reads and tips about the subject besides the dj bible i appreciate it
Love yourself like its nobody's business
 

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tailor everything , and i mean everything

haircuts
clothes
diet
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