"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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bambino
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Just make yourself different from your group/friends. Something she will notice in a good way.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
oakraiderz2
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Themanthatcan
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
bambino
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Charm&Style
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Nailed everyone too, u know why? Because i could give 2 sh!ts a less who they were, and how i made them feel.
Thus, when i teased them and so on, it broke through their sh!t barrier.
Best thing to do is give her attention in a non-lusting way. In other words give her negative attention, but at the same time use some kino and a smile to show ur intrests.
Boink On
Ex.
you just did something nice
"Wow, no kiss, no hug? How do people put up with you?" Back-turn.
DO THIS PLAYFULLY....
You are being honest about the situation, but you aren't bein an @ss. Do this often enough and she will try to get on your good side. She realizes that she messed up, but you don't make it a big deal so there is no awkwardness.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
oakraiderz2
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Themanthatcan
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oakraiderz2 said:It sounds like you need a lot more work. If you have to ask how to handle a girl who's got an ego then you're probably not ready to play ball in her league.
That's horrible motivation.Completely un-dj.This is more positive:YOU OWN THE BALLPARK.YOU OWN THE LEAGUE.HECK,YOU OWN THE FREAKIN SPORT!Now just find the hall of fame,man.Find the hall of fame.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Uh...my bad. Im more of a realist. Realistically, hes asking what he should say to her. If you have you sh*t together there wouldnt be a need to ask these kinda questions. Still think hes in control playin in his own park? Just cause you think you can box doesnt mean you jump in the ring with Ali. Just because you wanna believe you can get any girl you want doesnt mean you actually can.Themanthatcan said:That's horrible motivation.Completely un-dj.This is more positive:YOU OWN THE BALLPARK.YOU OWN THE LEAGUE.HECK,YOU OWN THE FREAKIN SPORT!Now just find the hall of fame,man.Find the hall of fame.
tubagiant89
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True, but you'll never know until you get the balls to try.oakraiderz2 said:Uh...my bad. Im more of a realist. Realistically, hes asking what he should say to her. If you have you sh*t together there wouldnt be a need to ask these kinda questions. Still think hes in control playin in his own park? Just cause you think you can box doesnt mean you jump in the ring with Ali. Just because you wanna believe you can get any girl you want doesnt mean you actually can.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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