How to create a female orgasm??

[andybonse]

Hello,

So probably going to end up having sex tonight with the gf been together 4 months. We were talking and she said shes never ever had an orgasm, not been with hardly anyone 3 I think.

Whats the best way? she doesnt like being licked. so was thinking some ****ty and g spot? her **** gets so sensitive so soon though and she laughs.

Thanks

 

[andybonse]

her ****ty get sensitive lol

 

[Bible_Belt]

Girls have to learn how to orgasm - so don't stress it if she doesn't. It's just as much on her as it is you.

She probably had a bad experience with oral sex, which is why she says she doesn't like it. As she is lying on her back, lick her cl!t gently while you finger her and make a 'come here' motion with your finger. The g-spot is up top toward her stomach. Take your time, go slow, and try to get her wet before you touch her pvssy. If you're lucky and she cvms, it's ok to be a little more forceful as she is orgasming. I find that a lot of younger girls try to push me away while they cvm, but they want you to not let them push you away.

It's confusing, I know. Just try to have fun.

 

[VladPatton]

You gotta get scientific and dirty, homes:

http://www.xvideos.com/video3484500/how_to_female_ejaculation

 

[Fireballs]

Read Sex God Method or here is a thread that condenses the book pretty well.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=162412

You're welcome.

 

[andybonse]

I played with the ****ty but it gets sensitive so soon and she laughs? Then the come here motion on the g spot hurts after so long? How fast and hard should it be? Seems its going to be impossible to make her orgasm.

Sucks :/

 

[logicallefty]

t. I find that a lot of younger girls try to push me away while they cvm, but they want you to not let them push you away.

It's confusing, I know. Just try to have fun.

I have seen this too a few times.. Wtf is the reason?

 

[JNil]

Some women just have trouble having an orgasm, I know it sounds strange, but i've seen a few women get too sensitive and over stimulated down there and need a break. You ever fvck so hard your d1ck becomes numb? Its all about the mind games, you need to get her seriously horny about you, I recently made a girl bust a nut in less then 5 mins by just ****ing her the way she wanted, you need to ask them there fetishes, there fantasies, how they like it.

Its absolutely amazing to cuum at the same time with a women and feel her having an orgasm, you will KNOW IT. You can feel it.

Think about when you get yourself so worked up because a woman is so hot, you are fantasizing about that puussssyyy before you even enter. And then when you do.. it dont last too long, well she's the same way

 

[Bible_Belt]

I have seen this too a few times.. Wtf is the reason?

Rape fantasy.

And to the OP, like I said, don't stress. She'll figure it out eventually, and she still enjoys sex even if she doesn't cvm.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Read Sex God Method or here is a thread that condenses the book pretty well.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=162412

You're welcome.

^This.

Also, read some erotic literature written by women.

:cuss:

Whatever, it's for research purposes.

Most of the time, the protagonist, written first person by the Author, is getting dominated. And it's always a slow progression AKA lots of foreplay. If you're chick has never had an orgasm, then you may need to put some extra work in here to build it up. At least for the first time.

 

[logicallefty]

Some women just have trouble having an orgasm, I know it sounds strange, but i've seen a few women get too sensitive and over stimulated down there and need a break. You ever fvck so hard your d1ck becomes numb?

Its absolutely amazing to cuum at the same time with a women and feel her having an orgasm, you will KNOW IT. You can feel it.

Agreed.

I have had one woman who never came with any guy during sex just oral, me included.

Had another who had never came with any guy until me. She said I was #7.

I've also had it the other way, two or three I didn't cvm with at all or very very rarely. I don't know why. I was attracted as he\_\_. Made her happy I could go like the Energizer bunny.

I guess it comes down to every dynamic between every man/woman combo is different.

 

[Jaylan]

OP two things;

1. She has to know her body. A woman has a greater chance of orgasm from oral or intercourse if she can already orgasm through masturbation. Talk to her, communicate, and find out what she does to get herself off.

2. EMPATHY IS HUGE. You have to truly care about her pleasure. One thing that makes it easy to enjoy sex is when both people care about the other's pleasure. Some of the lamest sex sessions I had were with women who seemed to only be concerned about what I was doing for them.

Try to communicate during sex and find the right rhythm and things you need to do. It doesnt need to be a full on convo. Just quick light questions....use her hands to help guide you, and follow the way each other's body moves.

Sometimes it does take a little practice. And like other said, some women are just take more work to satisfy. So enjoy the challenge. Good Luck

 

[randell]

Why not just get her a vibrator? I have found that the "egg" type works great, with her on top (kneeling) If you give her her first climax, you are likely to have her following you around like a puppy dog. In fact, if she didn't, I'd dump her as not being "into" it enough (for me).