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How to counteract push/pull

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When this game of push and pull being played on you by your part time employer. Such that this week yea, we working, it's all great, good times. Call you next week buddy. Next week goes by, no call.

Reason says that whatever the time and effort he puts into the project, whatever the outcome will be. Push/pull being played a) so that I give a call, a power game, and b) I don't know make suggestions for b, c, d, e, etc..


How the fvck do I counteract this sh1t?



Assume that I can work for this guy, or not, don't matter. If I do, that's only because a) I learn some in terms of PUA sh1t from him (without his knowledge), b) I expand my field, and c) there is a vague promise in future richness if the project succeeds.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Hahahaha. No



After posting this I just came up with answers for b, c, d, e, etc... You do push/pull on people who you want what? Women who you want to fvck, right? Men who you want to be loyal to you, right? It's attraction mechanism to get me attracted to the idea of being there for a long haul. Mmmmmmmm, sounds gay, but I just got a big a55 doze of confidence boost right there. I am valuable.


So, I'm thinking I gonna push/pull my temp emplyeer as well. He calls me, Monday I think, I noticed a 10 day interval before. (and I was able to raise my pay by 7 bucks previously, so I've played him, no worries) So he calls me, I'll ask him if he done jerking off over barney the dinasaur and ready to do some REEL work! :) Then I'll be all up for working right away, but when it comes time to it I'm gonna tell him some other things came up and I'll have to give him a call back tomorrow. That be 3 days later.


My current idea is to play back, do some push/pull. Let me know if you have better answer to the original question.




He might have started push/pull because he was unable to reach me once, my fvcking cell phone is acting up sometimes. So perhaps he is thinking I am doing push/pull, lol. Could be that, could be other things, such as described above.
 
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