"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how to corrupt a prude girl?

thunderbolt

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been hanging out with this shy prude-ish church girl. i suspect shes a virgin. we dated for awhile, buti told her i had no interest in relationships. she still hangs around me and asks me to go places with her.
id like to bang her but im a little conflicted. i dont want to end up hurting her feelings or making her mad. shes like 10 years younger than me, and seems inexperienced. really nice girl, but kinda boring. i feel like shes the type that wants someone to come along and marry her and fertilize her eggs....aaaannnddd im not doin that.
so should i just do it anyway or kick her to the curb?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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VladPatton

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Without a doubt, get rid of her. These girls are snooze fests and you're not gonna change them.
 

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She is keeping you in the friendzone. I guarantee she hangs around you while a more attractive man is breaking her vaginal walls.

Shy my ass! Prudes should be kicked to the curb immediately.

A girl who is a prude to you won't be a prude or shy girl if Channing Tatum was talking to her. Think about that. Then it'll become very clear why you should drop her ass. Judge nismo's ruling.

Case closed.
 

thunderbolt

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nismo-4 said:
She is keeping you in the friendzone. I guarantee she hangs around you while a more attractive man is breaking her vaginal walls.

Shy my ass! Prudes should be kicked to the curb immediately.

A girl who is a prude to you won't be a prude or shy girl if Channing Tatum was talking to her. Think about that. Then it'll become very clear why you should drop her ass. Judge nismo's ruling.

Case closed.
normally id agree but i dont think its true. this girl used to be a chubster a couple of years ago until recently she got fit and decent looking. then i met her. i dont think shes had much attention from men. i can tell...i made out with her, she was scared lol. doesnt know how to be affectionate. shes no slut.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Pardner

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thunderbolt said:
normally id agree but i dont think its true. this girl used to be a chubster a couple of years ago until recently she got fit and decent looking. then i met her. i dont think shes had much attention from men. i can tell...i made out with her, she was scared lol. doesnt know how to be affectionate. shes no slut.
Girls like this are the worst kind. They have been looked over until they start to look good, then their ego soars out of control where they eat up all the attention from many men. If she doesn't want to give it up she won't. Nothing you can do to make her do that.
 

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You have options
1 - bang her like you want
2 - enter the friendzone

If option 1 means you might hurt her feelings and you'd rather put them above your own urges then go with 2. You're practically there already ;)
 

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Build lots of rapport, get her to trust you. If a girl is very inexperienced (sexually) lots of rapport.

I mean some women are this way. You need to make it fun and exciting before you get sexual.

In western culture most women are not this way.
 
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