"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to convince her to (non sexual content)

Strelok

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The problem is that the company where I work expect all the employee at my level to study and memorise certain knowledge completely untied from our job, its actually some kind of bureaucratic stuff from the EU.

I have no intention at all to waste an entire week to memorize that useless stuff just to pass a test so my best option is to ask one of my work mates to do the test for me (she already did and passed it).

I would like to ask you which one is the best way to convince her, she is a friend too not just a work mate however being her a woman I dont think it's a good idea to consider dealing with her as dealing with a man.

If necessary I have no problem to bribe her as I would with a man ,but Im not sure if its the best way to act.

Is a straight and direct proposal a good idea?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Strelok

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FFS 40 views not even an opinion? Im not asking for the holy grail just tell me what you think.
 

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Large number of views and little posts seems to be an ongoing trend in this forum.

As for your situation, it's hard to say.. I would personally just be straight forward and ask. Being on friendly terms with her might make it smoother too since you're asking for a favor.
 

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You will damage your self-respect by doing this. It will be consciously unnoticeable to you, but it will be there.

Man-up and take the test yourself. Then you will know you stood up and took care of business as a man if integrity.
 
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