"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how to construct a dhv?

collalife

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i have plenty of openers but i want to construct original dhvs does anyone have the recipe of the content of a good dhv.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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slaog

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Probably the best way to DHV to a woman is not worry about the outcome of your chat. In other words act like you're interested in her but you don't need her (or anybody else for that matter). This is because, if you need her then that means she is a higher value than you are.

Keep in mind that you're the prize no matter what the outcome.
 

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Yes, I help guys with this all the time.

1. List the three MOST interesting things about you. Examples could be places you've travelled, talents you have, passions or hobbies, etc.

2. Construct a small story about it. Focus on it being adventurous, spontaneous, being the center of attention or you being in leadership roles.

3. Find a way to bait a girl into it with a simple question.

An example that I recently did with a student:

1. First thing he said was, "I've been to 35 countries." This is MONEY!!!!

2. Constructed a story about how his dad is a sales rep for BMW and traveled across the world. His dad would bring him along so they could bond and do crazy things together. He bungee jumped in Switzerland, saw the Wailing Wall in Jerusalem, rode bikes through Hong Kong, etc.

3. Created a bait question of, "where's the coolest place you've traveled?"

Done.

Anymore questions, feel free to PM me.
 
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