"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to Console?

Fela Kuti

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Hi all,

What to say if your girlfriend is feeling sad like "I'm having a bad day, my father is such a jerk" or "I failed today's exam :cry:"

Most of the time I'm speechless in those situation. Help me, please :(

Thanks :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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listen to what she has to say

ask questions about the situation

but DONT GIVE ADVICE OR TELL HER WHAT TO DO

thats all you need
 

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Natural Player said:
listen to what she has to say

ask questions about the situation

but DONT GIVE ADVICE OR TELL HER WHAT TO DO

thats all you need
even if she's already my gf? what if she asks, "what should i do?"
 

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please, i need examples. "i know how you feel", "don't be sad" or something.
 
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