how to cold approach a cute chick in front of her mom

[TopGun2000]

This happened to me quite a few time lately. Saw a cute chick at a restaurant, mall, or a grocery store. I knew she checked me out a couple of times, had good eye contact and showed great interest. However she was with her mom (or dad or both)!

I just couldn't think of a way to go talk to her directly in front of her parents without being seen creepy. How in the world can anyone do that? Honestly I've beaten myself up so many time for not knowing how to handle this situation.

 

[DJ Bax]

I was wondering that too, I was just at the beach for a week and it seemed like 85% of the decent babes were with their parents

 

[Who Dares Win]

Hi, we're organizing a beach volley tournament in few hours and we're looking for young folk to partecipate I wonder if you wanna join, if its no a beach just find something similar instead of the tournament.

See her reaction, proceed to isolate, flirt see her reaction and get a deal to meet somewhere else later.

1)her parents wont mind her having fun so will make no resistance of you two talking

2)if she goes to meet you the parents are fine thinking she is playing volleyball



Is that so hard guys? bvllsh1tting is a art

 

[OC Speedball]

I just got a girl's number in front of her mom about a month ago.

You go up and flirt with her just like you would any other girl. I've done it a few times. It's not too much different than trying to talk to a girl without her mom. Except, I wouldn't advise you to use sexual innuendos or kino. If you do the approach right the mom will laugh and think it's cute that you're flirting with her daughter. You can jokingly acknowledge that you are hitting on her in front of her mom, which will ease any tension you might be feeling. Say something like:

"Hi. Is this your daughter? I'm gonna hit on her for a second if you don't mind."

"Are you mad I'm hitting on your daughter?" (say this with a smile so she knows you're just playing around)

 

[MrNiceGuy23]

I'm guessing you're young (under 18?). If that's the case then you just act polite, be nice, etc, but still make it obvious that you are interested in her and want to see her again.

If you are an adult, then act like it. Her mom should have no say in anything her daughter does as an adult. Now I wouldn't be making sexual references to the girl as she is in fact with her mother and it's not the time or place for those references (comes off as very rude and disrespectful) but act however you want, her mom is just another woman there.

To Who Dares Win...that sounds like a terrible idea in my book. Unless you actually end up playing volleyball or whatever you told her to do, you come off as a weirdo later on.

If I'm the girl and some random guy approaches me and says "hey we're setting up a volleyball game later wanna play?" and I say yes only to go off with you later and there's no volleyball I'm going to think you're either:

1. A total creep who has to lie to try to talk to me.
2. A serial killer trying to abduct me.
3. A rapist.
4. A dude with no game.

None of these end with you looking like an alpha. Alphas don't need to play the whole lying game to mommy and daddy just to show he's interested in the girl. Be a man.

 

[SharinganUser]

I'm guessing you're young (under 18?). If that's the case then you just act polite, be nice, etc, but still make it obvious that you are interested in her and want to see her again.

If you are an adult, then act like it. Her mom should have no say in anything her daughter does as an adult. Now I wouldn't be making sexual references to the girl as she is in fact with her mother and it's not the time or place for those references (comes off as very rude and disrespectful) but act however you want, her mom is just another woman there.

Except that even the sluttiest girls will be on their best behaviour when their parents are around. They just aren't going to be as receptive most of the time when their parents are around. If you get her away from the parents, then she'll be more open to your advances.

To Who Dares Win...that sounds like a terrible idea in my book. Unless you actually end up playing volleyball or whatever you told her to do, you come off as a weirdo later on.

If I'm the girl and some random guy approaches me and says "hey we're setting up a volleyball game later wanna play?" and I say yes only to go off with you later and there's no volleyball I'm going to think you're either:

1. A total creep who has to lie to try to talk to me.
2. A serial killer trying to abduct me.
3. A rapist.
4. A dude with no game.

None of these end with you looking like an alpha. Alphas don't need to play the whole lying game to mommy and daddy just to show he's interested in the girl. Be a man.

That is all easily solved by actually organizing a volleyball game. It'll work even better if you are good at playing it too.