"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How to close? Closing tips?
- Thread starter REPEM
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
Its simple to find out if you can close, you just have to try to close. Or in other words you have to escalate. For example if you want a girls number, get onto a topic about something you both mutually enjoy eg going to museums, then perhaps mention a new exhibit, then suggest you two should go together and the number comes naturally. Or if you're trying to kiss close i always do the same thing, you dont need any fancy woo woo crap. Just bear this in mind, a girl wont have a sign up saying "KISS ME NOW"!! Anyway here's what i do, the first thing i do is hold her hand, if you're holding her hand you can move onto the next step, which is grab the small of her back and pull her in close, then i stroke her hair behind her ears and look deeply into her eyes. If there's no more than minimal resistance, shes ready to be kissed.
Then if you're trying to get laid, just do the natural progression from a kiss.
