"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How to close? Closing tips?
- Thread starter REPEM
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
Its simple to find out if you can close, you just have to try to close. Or in other words you have to escalate. For example if you want a girls number, get onto a topic about something you both mutually enjoy eg going to museums, then perhaps mention a new exhibit, then suggest you two should go together and the number comes naturally. Or if you're trying to kiss close i always do the same thing, you dont need any fancy woo woo crap. Just bear this in mind, a girl wont have a sign up saying "KISS ME NOW"!! Anyway here's what i do, the first thing i do is hold her hand, if you're holding her hand you can move onto the next step, which is grab the small of her back and pull her in close, then i stroke her hair behind her ears and look deeply into her eyes. If there's no more than minimal resistance, shes ready to be kissed.
Then if you're trying to get laid, just do the natural progression from a kiss.
