jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
There’s one area I still struggle with. And I'm pretty sure this happened to you multiple times in your life.
It’s very easy for me to recognize when a woman is attracted to me or interested in sex.
I can read the signals, the flirting, the games.
When this happens, I struggle to maintain a healthy, neutral relationship with them.
Sometimes they make a move (monkeybranching)* and I fail to clearly say, "I’m not interested, even if you’re attractive"
Instead, I often become passive, avoid confrontation, and end up cutting contact almost entirely, reducing the relationship to basic greetings, even when these women are part of my social circle.
What I want to understand is how to manage this better, how to clearly communicate mutual attraction with women who are taken, while also stating that the situation isn’t appropriate. How to actually have that kind of conversation in a healthy, respectful way.
Am I asking this in a seduction community, which really should all of us learn to do the opposite? Yes, exactly that. Precisely because we know the subject and the path. I want to communicate with that woman so as not to lose my position as a high-value man. I shouldn't lower my value in their eyes, but I do refuse their offer, given the situation.
*For starters, it's actually a term to define how women want to go for another man, when they actually find out their actual men is inferior. So if they find out they can "afford" this higher value man, women will start flirting game with him, while keeping the relationship with other man. This always is the case with insecure women, but it also happen to be the case with higher quality too. It's actual their biologic instict to "secure" than man.
It’s very easy for me to recognize when a woman is attracted to me or interested in sex.
I can read the signals, the flirting, the games.
When this happens, I struggle to maintain a healthy, neutral relationship with them.
Sometimes they make a move (monkeybranching)* and I fail to clearly say, "I’m not interested, even if you’re attractive"
Instead, I often become passive, avoid confrontation, and end up cutting contact almost entirely, reducing the relationship to basic greetings, even when these women are part of my social circle.
What I want to understand is how to manage this better, how to clearly communicate mutual attraction with women who are taken, while also stating that the situation isn’t appropriate. How to actually have that kind of conversation in a healthy, respectful way.
Am I asking this in a seduction community, which really should all of us learn to do the opposite? Yes, exactly that. Precisely because we know the subject and the path. I want to communicate with that woman so as not to lose my position as a high-value man. I shouldn't lower my value in their eyes, but I do refuse their offer, given the situation.
*For starters, it's actually a term to define how women want to go for another man, when they actually find out their actual men is inferior. So if they find out they can "afford" this higher value man, women will start flirting game with him, while keeping the relationship with other man. This always is the case with insecure women, but it also happen to be the case with higher quality too. It's actual their biologic instict to "secure" than man.