"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to change way of thinking?

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floydtheater07

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I've read the DJ bible and a lot of the more interesting posts here. I agree that the best way of attracting women is to change your way of thinking, but that advice seems pretty rhetorical. How exactly does one go about doing this? I can tell myself that I am the prize all I want, but that doesn't change the fact that I feel insecure and don't really believe that.

Suggestions? I've achieved that mental state before, but I have trouble maintaining it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It doesn't matter what you think about yourself.

It matters what she thinks about you.
 
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dav22

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Don't just tell yourself you're the prize. I don't think that will ever work.

You've got to work from the ground up. Write out a list of all your 'bad' qualities, it might make you feel rough but it'll be a weight off your mind.

Go through them one by one and work out what you can do to improve them.

Then most importantly, work on doing those things. Remember there's no miracle, it's going to be gradual :up:
 
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