"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to carry on the conversation please?

Stephen89

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So I going to do daygame again.

One of my sticking points is to carry on a conversation:

Me: I just say you and just had to say hello to you!

Her: Hello with a smile

Me: So what are you up to

Her: Just going home

Me: good luck lol

So how do I carry on the conversation in this kind of conversation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lizardking82

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I wouldn't do day game or night game at all. I would work on my life in general, try and have a good time, be helping to people and ready to learn new things and girls will be everywhere you go. Just enter conversation with them there, forget about cold approach.
 

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Her: Just going home

Me: good luck lol
You ended the convo without having a decent reply to work with because of your own inaction. You gave up.

Smilingly …What are you going home to/for? To be expanded on in the convo after her answer.
You have to build a convo from nothing.
If you want to fish, then fish, but don’t agree with the fish that it needs to be free, or you Will go home hungry…
 
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DEEZEDBRAH

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So I going to do daygame again.

One of my sticking points is to carry on a conversation:

Me: I just say you and just had to say hello to you!

Her: Hello with a smile

Me: So what are you up to

Her: Just going home

Me: good luck lol

So how do I carry on the conversation in this kind of conversation?
You lead. She follows or #nextset!

Statement of intent. Don't ask. Tell. Indicate what is up. Set the pace.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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I wouldn't do day game or night game at all. I would work on my life in general, try and have a good time, be helping to people and ready to learn new things and girls will be everywhere you go. Just enter conversation with them there, forget about cold approach.
I think game and DJ lifestyle coincides with what you just said. The problem is that, these days, most men reek of low testosterone, frail, skinny jeans, and are pedaling to the feminine biological strategy.

How many men are going out on their shield, pursuing their dreams, and getting girls all the while not playing into the feminine biological strategy? It's few and far between.

Even Chad's won the genetic lottery. By default he plays into it but his dumb ass thinks he's pimp. He likely gets cucked and resources extracted.

I would say, Dan Bilizarin is among the few that come to mind. There's some on pickup that do just that. Most are getting married, raising Chad's bastard kids, and playing house with cratered smv.

I've come across a lot if reformed sluts and or church girl gone *****. Marries and has kids. See 'hookup culture' and goes full retard.


Make no mistake. I fully agree with you. I just think, most men aren't getting forged in the fire. I bet a mini fraction in pickup and even here or RooshV forum have got guys beyond AA which is absolutely pathetic.

Definitely don't trash life chasing skanks. I think online and dating apps allow for amateur hour passive dating. Give the illusion of success without actually stepping up. It's documented quite nicely that said apps are full of 1. Attention *****s and 2. Low hanging fruit (cratered smv, plummeting smv, single moms, etc)!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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