"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to build up reputation at HS?

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For like 11 years I have been nobody at my HS. Now I decided that I gotta change this. My status, social circle, value are all zero. How to improve them? Like most people/everybody have some prejudice of mine so it could be really hard to change this. If I suddenly like changed overnight, then could it even lower my value, because other people think that I am like trying to be somebody else? If I went to talk to somebody Ive been in same class for 1 years, and talked almost never, wouldn't it be strange? What should I do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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if your in highschool for 11 years then you are nobody
ahahah i kid

umm yeah just start talking more in class
change your style with a haircut
then maybe get some new clothes a week or two later
then start talking even more in class
then talk to people outside of class
 

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(PROTIP: OP means 11 years school TOTAL. he's a junior.)

Im struggling with same thing.. sophomore. idk just have to chage your ways. obviously theyre not working.
 

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I won Prom King and am Class President of my Senior Class.
Building a reputation means nothing until you are comfortable in your own skin.

Read the guides on here.
 

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Umm who cares, just because you changed overnight doesn't mean they'll think that your trying to be someone else, they'll probably think your just been the same person always just haven't said anything.

NO, it wouldn't be strange if all of a sudden you started talking to people.

The way i improved my social status was making friends with other guys, don't even bother with making any moves on girls to increase your social status, your social status needs to be up in your own gender before you try with girls, trust me most girls ain't gonna go near the guy that doesn't even have any popularity in his own gender. Trust me guys want to know girl and girls want to know guys so each guy you make friends with will open the door to a few girls, so i went round and opened every door possible and in the end met more girls then i did guys. Theres not much to it really. Trust me it works, I know almost every guy in my town so through them i can/have meet every girl in the town other then the lesbiens haha

hope i helped
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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