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How To Build a Social Circle Outside of School/Work?

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It's a well known fact that Social Circle is best for LTRs, but for those of us who never had a good social circle in School or growing up in general what do we do?

How do you build a social circle from scratch, that brings you a consistent supply of new women over the years?

I see a lot of advice here for Cold approach and OLD but rarely if ever about Social Circle Game.
 

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You train yourself to paper over other people's inadequacies. I do mean train and train some more. I m going to tell what I know and hardly ever see written.

Skills:
Not take things personally and move covo back to win win frame.
Be a connector - run events, include people who r on periphery then use that as social proof to connect to the cool kidz
Learn how to add little tails and questions to people s stories to keep them talking
Be relentlessly positive and happy to see people.

If you need more than that you may have halitosis of the soul or live in a zombie colony.
 

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There are plenty of books and courses to learn those skills. Spend the money you wont
regret it. Don't get confused by all the content out there just bring it back to those 4 core skills.
 

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This is such a different conversation now that we have polarizing political outrage taking root in a big way.

We are in the age of listening today and just lending an ear to a person for 5 minutes.

I think more than ever today silence is the most important aspect
 

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It's a well known fact that Social Circle is best for LTRs, but for those of us who never had a good social circle in School or growing up in general what do we do?

How do you build a social circle from scratch, that brings you a consistent supply of new women over the years?

I see a lot of advice here for Cold approach and OLD but rarely if ever about Social Circle Game.
Hang out at the neighborhood bar, go to pool parties, get in with the lake rats that go to party cove, hobbies, etc. I've developed social circles thru all of those settings.
 

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NON WORK HOBBIES!

There are other people who like doing the same things you do. Go do those things with those people. VOILA! instant Social circle.
 
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