"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How To Break up..for no real reason?

Patrick124

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My girl is off at college, we've been off and on since she left, she plays a sport, dont see her enough.
Want to break up with her, but my only real reason is I hooked up with someone else while we are techniquely "on" right now. feel guilty.
What should I say to lay her down as smoothly as possible, shes still one of my best friends.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"..My girl is off at college, we've been off and on since she left, she plays a sport, dont see her enough... and we'd be happier if we weren't exclusive."

This always happens, someone says that he wants to do something for no real reason, and then lists his real reasons. You bums!
 
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