"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to break up efficiently

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Read bible, searched, etc...

To cut right to the chase, I'm going to end things with a girl I've been seeing. This has been in my mind for a while now. She's not crazy, BPD, or anything like that but when she gets emotional I do know it. My question is how do I end things with her so I don't have to change my number or get a conceal and carry :nervous: (99% joking). We've been having arguments for the past couple months or so. It isn't coming from left field. I've broken up with girls before, but they were short relationships. This has gone on significantly longer than most.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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End it at the next argument - it is easier to end a relationship at the height of negativity to remind you that you are doing the right thing. It will help her as well to come to the conclusion during the rise in negative tension and difficulties.

Make sure you tell her that you will no longer contact her, and ask her to do not contact you either out of mutual respect in moving on.

Some women wait and wait thinking the man will contact her again, which reduces the effectiveness of a clean break-up.

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