"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to break this to her...

volkme68

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That her BF is a psycho? Here is the deal....

Long story short this girl i was seeing got a BF. He is clingy and emotional. After three weeks, he is expressing his undying love for this girl, taking her to weddings, and generally just going ultra-AFC with her.

I like this one, so I still hang out with her, and am kinda Friend zoned, but there is still TONS of sexual tension with us.

With his clinginess, she is turning to me more and more, and it is obvious their relationship isnt gonna last. Understandably, he is extremely jealous and tells her she can't hangout with me, which ****s him over even more.

Well its starting to get to him. The other night, her and I were hanging out. When I left, a car identical to her BF's chased me on my motorcycle and tried to run me down. At first I chalked it up to crazy kids and my imagination, but then at another light, same car came at me again. I lost him and rode home. 20 min later she calls and tells me how she has to bail on a trip that weekend cuz he had an absolute fit. Now I am 99% sure it was him in the car.

Couple days later, I am with her just chilling and I get a txt from his number saying to stay the **** away from her. She is there with me so I ask her whose number it is, then she saw the txt. The kid played innocent when we confronted him about it, saying someone must've spoofed my phone. hour later i get another txt, "can't fight your own battles? watch yourself *****"
He managed to convince her that it wasn't him, must've been one of his friends.

I went to the cell phone company, and had them trace the txt back and they verified that the messages came from the indicated number, AKA not spoofed. She knows I went to the company and wants to know the results.

How do I tell this girl that this kid is crazy? She is a little naive about it. I am not really scared of him, and even if I dont get back out of the FZ, I still want to tell her about him.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Deniska

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Dont tell her anything. She needs to figure out on her own.

Next time he tries to run you over with his car, call the cops and report it.

In the process he is only digging his own grave.


Or.

Tell her that her bf is too crazy and you cant be friends with her. And walk away from this friendship that you have with her.
 

sanoj

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Deniska said:
Tell her that her bf is too crazy and you cant be friends with her. And walk away from this friendship that you have with her.
I agree. This will only increase your chances imo
 

volkme68

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yeah i think you guys are right. I just got a brick with a note thrown through at my holuse last night saying last chance ****er, stay away. I am in college in FL. Somehow, he got my home phone in OH and left a message for the family telling them to tell me to stay away as well.
 

ENIGMA16

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Yeah I'd tell her that you don't want to hang out with her because her bf is insane and then tell her all the crazy **** he did to you. That way she's forced to choose between you two; if she chooses you then you're good and if she chooses him then you know she's crazy and isn't worth hanging out with.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJCorleone

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dude teach the ****er a lesson. you just let him throw **** at your house, run you down? be a ****ing man and teach the prick a lesson.
 

Ease

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Dont try to get serious with the girl about it. You cant logic her anyway, she's gona lose attraction to him because of his weak game.

Laugh it off and sleep with her.

Then find the prick and beat the **** the out of him.
 
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