"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to break this to her...

volkme68

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That her BF is a psycho? Here is the deal....

Long story short this girl i was seeing got a BF. He is clingy and emotional. After three weeks, he is expressing his undying love for this girl, taking her to weddings, and generally just going ultra-AFC with her.

I like this one, so I still hang out with her, and am kinda Friend zoned, but there is still TONS of sexual tension with us.

With his clinginess, she is turning to me more and more, and it is obvious their relationship isnt gonna last. Understandably, he is extremely jealous and tells her she can't hangout with me, which ****s him over even more.

Well its starting to get to him. The other night, her and I were hanging out. When I left, a car identical to her BF's chased me on my motorcycle and tried to run me down. At first I chalked it up to crazy kids and my imagination, but then at another light, same car came at me again. I lost him and rode home. 20 min later she calls and tells me how she has to bail on a trip that weekend cuz he had an absolute fit. Now I am 99% sure it was him in the car.

Couple days later, I am with her just chilling and I get a txt from his number saying to stay the **** away from her. She is there with me so I ask her whose number it is, then she saw the txt. The kid played innocent when we confronted him about it, saying someone must've spoofed my phone. hour later i get another txt, "can't fight your own battles? watch yourself *****"
He managed to convince her that it wasn't him, must've been one of his friends.

I went to the cell phone company, and had them trace the txt back and they verified that the messages came from the indicated number, AKA not spoofed. She knows I went to the company and wants to know the results.

How do I tell this girl that this kid is crazy? She is a little naive about it. I am not really scared of him, and even if I dont get back out of the FZ, I still want to tell her about him.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Deniska

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Dont tell her anything. She needs to figure out on her own.

Next time he tries to run you over with his car, call the cops and report it.

In the process he is only digging his own grave.


Or.

Tell her that her bf is too crazy and you cant be friends with her. And walk away from this friendship that you have with her.
 

sanoj

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Deniska said:
Tell her that her bf is too crazy and you cant be friends with her. And walk away from this friendship that you have with her.
I agree. This will only increase your chances imo
 

volkme68

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yeah i think you guys are right. I just got a brick with a note thrown through at my holuse last night saying last chance ****er, stay away. I am in college in FL. Somehow, he got my home phone in OH and left a message for the family telling them to tell me to stay away as well.
 

ENIGMA16

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Yeah I'd tell her that you don't want to hang out with her because her bf is insane and then tell her all the crazy **** he did to you. That way she's forced to choose between you two; if she chooses you then you're good and if she chooses him then you know she's crazy and isn't worth hanging out with.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJCorleone

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dude teach the ****er a lesson. you just let him throw **** at your house, run you down? be a ****ing man and teach the prick a lesson.
 

Ease

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Dont try to get serious with the girl about it. You cant logic her anyway, she's gona lose attraction to him because of his weak game.

Laugh it off and sleep with her.

Then find the prick and beat the **** the out of him.
 
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