"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how to behave when she is sick

Sato21m

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i got a question my gf is sick now and i don't know how to act because i never call her and also i'm always busy we been going out for 3 months and she is great in all the aspects so i don't know if i should be a lil more flexible what you guys think about that
 

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Just give her a ring to see how she's recovering, show some sympathy. Otherwise keep on keepin on.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Call her and ask if there is anything you could do. It's the easiest way to find out what she wants.
 

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Originally posted by Julian
Just give her a ring to see how she's recovering, show some sympathy. Otherwise keep on keepin on.

^^^

You don't want to seem unsympathetic to her plight, but you don't want to be by her side or waiting on her hand and foot.

Gives her some incentive to get well and be around you again, so she associates being well with being around you. You don't want to associate yourself with times of sickness.
 
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