How to becum an $ssh0le?

[LuckyStrike88]

Yes, i have reached the point of realization. To the guys on the top i'm sure you know what i'm talking about. I know my stuff, but i'm trying to find a way to actually apply it.

$ssh0le is used as an extreme.
What i need help with is how to get myself to the point where i am less afraid to rock the boat especially in those kinds of situations where it is necessary but you have to get yourself to take the risk or fail. And just don't give a damn what people will think or how they will react to you.

I appreciate any tips from naturals and books/media on this subject.

 

[jurry]

You've answered your own question, what more could a "natural" or book provide you with? It would only serve to distract you from doing what you know you want to do already. YOU have to jump, no one can do it for you.. And thats the beauty of it.

 

[Dgwizdal]

Push buttons, make fun, be playful, be selfish, be challenging, be unavailable, be preoccupied with yourself. Laugh off sh!tty attitudes and sh!t tests. Don't respond to women's games. Nail it into your head that you are the prize and are to be won over instead of the other way around.

Always maintain your frame and remember that a woman's actions speak much louder than her words. Before you cave into manipulation or a woman's feeble attempt to pick you apart; always remember that attraction is what keeps her around. Be an immovable oak tree in the face of a hurricane. You do not need to explain yourself to anyone. You are the center of your universe and women revolve around what you say and do. If they don't like it - see ya later. Stay on your path. Break rapport. Disqualify. Make them work for your affection and attention. Make them invest. Be decisive, take control, stick to your word. Stick to your boundaries.

Never give a straight answer unless it is NO.

Should be a good start to get rid of your niceguyness. Nail the above in your head and you'll be back asking how to balance things out again but from a place of strength and control.

 

[Between_The_Lines]

Be careful what you ask for - you might just get it.

With that said, my 2 cents to you would be to combine the "unconventional" with a strong, confident approach. This angle will work best if you already are a bit leftfield yourself. If you're not, you risk casting a tryhard light on yourself, but hey, you can always write it off as a work in progress and keep experimenting until you discover what suits you best. Approach as usual but steer the conversation toward something morbid, strange, politically incorrect etc. and try your best to keep it there. Make it seem as natural as possible. Remain conscious of the fact that you're doing this to expand and experiment. Don't fall into the trap of becoming this character that predictably gets rejected over and over for the sake of being outlandish. That's fun too (to an extent), but you ultimately want to get laid, right?

Edit: I'd add also - learn how to talk ENDLESSLY. Learn too how to jump from one disparate topic to another. Above all, make your ultimate goal...to have FUN on YOUR TERMS. Overdone can certainly come off as @ssholish, but toning it down is usually easier than cranking it up (in my experience at least)

 

[Dgwizdal]

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