How to become more sexual

[Atom Smasher]

hey people

quick question about being sexual with words :
what is the limit to not being a pervert ?

Use inuendo. I guarantee you, it will NOT go over her head. She will process it.

Examples:
"Be careful, you might blow it with me"
"That's a very penetrating question"
"I love our stimulating conversation"

Just pepper those words throughout and she will view you in a sexual light. No overt comments are necessary. Bar skanks might be a different story.

 

[Allurre]

Here's one that should hit a home run:

Do not fear sex. Do not perceive sex as something wrong. Be comfortable with what the fact that we're all sexual beings at our biological core. Once you accept that sex is a way of life, your sexuality levels will get it's fair taste of freedom.

 

[Don Alfredo]

OK, as a guy who has struggled with this concept, I feel no one has gotten quite to the heart of the matter. Let's take a few of the points discussed so far: shaven head: check; red meat eater: check; Metallica fan: check; keep fit: check; guy mates: check; smile a lot: check; eye contact: check; clean/not smelly: check; man interests: check. I am slim by nature and not very hairy at all, but I guess you can't have everything.

I STILL feel awkward inside about a girl wanting to be with me. I think it might have a thing to do with never being kissed at school, never having a date at college and not being active sexually throughout in general. I never "go for it" as I think about the poor girl and feel it might be best for everyone if I didn't even try. So I don't. For all the external factors, none has hit upon the internal point a lot of guys who are trying to "improve their chances" really are looking for and that is sexual self worth. The only fix is females, which is the big problem in the first place. Any advice guys?

For what it's worth, one thing that makes me feel better and one piece of advice:

- Go to a big event. You'll be amazed how many ugly, unkempt and out of shape guys are out there. And they mostly seem to have girls on their arms. This makes me feel better.

- Instead of glossy porn with stunning girls with perfect bodies, have some fun with amateur stuff with girls of different shapes, sizes and looks - in a word, more "real" girls so you no longer have ideas above your station, so to speak.

 

[ImWithTheDJ]

I don't see how becoming sexual will help you get a girl.

 

[Mike32ct]

I don't see how becoming sexual will help you get a girl.

It's because women also "think with the wrong head.". If all else is equal, she will pick the guy who makes her 'gina tingle more. Having a sexual vibe increases the chance that you'll be that guy.

Anyway, I don't want to take a great thread off topic.

To add another tip:

Be a bit more serious while also having more eye contact and kino. I have nothing against humor. But she's not going to b@ng you because you're funny.

 

[bookman]

I've been looking at facebook photos of myself in social gatherings, and noticing the difference of how my posture was about 3 years ago, and how it is now. how I used to actually follow the lead of the woman I liked, and lean in, and desperately go for whatever she gives me and between now how I take up space etc... noticing details in your own photos can be good to pinpoint what you lack and what you need to work on

 

[ImWithTheDJ]

It's because women also "think with the wrong head.". If all else is equal, she will pick the guy who makes her 'gina tingle more. Having a sexual vibe increases the chance that you'll be that guy.

Anyway, I don't want to take a great thread off topic.

To add another tip:

Be a bit more serious while also having more eye contact and kino. I have nothing against humor. But she's not going to b@ng you because you're funny.

It's hard to get a girl to have orgasm. If you can then more power to you, otherwise stick to building rapport and being yourself. Women don't really think about sex as much as we do.

 

[OneofOne]

It's hard to get a girl to have orgasm. If you can then more power to you, otherwise stick to building rapport and being yourself. Women don't really think about sex as much as we do.

Sorry, but you're wrong.

1. It isn't hard to give a woman an orgasm, but that's beyond the scope of this thread.
2. Women think about sex just as much as men do.
3. "Being yourself" is what brought most of the guys on this forum here to seek better advice.

If you don't give off a sexual vibe then women won't look at you as someone they want to sleep with. Your advice would leave a guy firmly in the friendzone.

 

[oxford comma]

can someone make a thread about how to give a woman an orgasm??

 

[EvilAgenda]

Be horny and not needy.

 

[TheMale]

i remember when i was younger (14)
i had a female friend that i was into, i finally got her but just kissing and playing with her boobs under her shirt (not really joyful

the probleme is she always told me i'm horny but doesnt sound like a game
more accusing : 'damn you are too horny, i dont wanna be with you cause you are horny and i dont know what you are capable of'

my question is how to deal with that situation ?
what can you answer to something like that ?

 

[EvilAgenda]

my question is how to deal with that situation?

Stay away from 14 year old girls

 

[Atom Smasher]

Guys, let's stick to tips on how to be more sexual in this thread.

 

[ImWithTheDJ]

i don't mind being in the friend zone and u shouldn't avoid it either. What u and a lot of guys on this site are looking for is a quick laid and that's ain't going to happen unless your good looking or rich. I have a lot of girls who are friends and I know they like me too.

 

[YAboi]

hold and rub a girls palm when talking to her/making her promise to do something like meet up and look deep into her eyes like ur not sure about her following through but then agree with her confirmation.Turns the ladies on. Ihave done this b4

 

[OC Speedball]

Ok people ill tell you what sexy is, being sexy means that you would Fu%$ yourself ! Thats it. If you are sexy, than if you look in the mirror, you would say to yourself damn, look at that sexy guy I would bang him if I was a chick or if I was gay I would rock his world. Whenever I see myself in the mirror I get a stiffy for myself, its strange but true

This.

I am tall, toned, and have a six pack. Call me narcissistic but I'll check myself out in the mirror and say, "DAMN!" Also, I have the mindset that I can phuck any girl up to an 8/10. ANY. Within reason of course (no boyfriend or husband). This mindset has helped me tremendously; because I actually believe it's true. If a girl loses interest in me then it's because I messed up somewhere, such as on the day 2.

I just started getting more sexual in the past few months, thanks to this mindset. I now walk around and I see females as little bunnies that are easily picked off. They blush when you approach them, they fidget, they smile. There is nothing to be afraid of. I am a ****y SOB now and girls can smell my confidence 500 feet away. They love it.