"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How To Become More Masculine

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Feel comfortable doing things that are typically not masculine (IE: Stuff you get called "pvssy" for).

This may include things like...

Doing yoga
Going to poetry readings or book clubs
Go to a halloween or costume party dressed in drag
Even something as basic as wearing a pink tee shirt.
 

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Serg897 said:
This is nonsense. Guns are unnecessary, I cant stand football, and I don't care much about cars. Define your own reality and your own interests, not necessarily what society dictates is "masculine" or not.
Oh yeah? How do you stay in shape than. I find the entire Western World obsessing over sports- any sports for that matter- even cricket will do. You gotta belong to at least one category, and you posting on this site already shows your belonging to the pus$y-loving club.
 

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Gender roles, traditional gender roles (none of the feminist mambo- jumbo). The second point to consider would be biology and how our masculinized brains are wired in. I remember myself as a kid reaching for a toy gun and a monster truck instead of a barbie when I was as young as 5, 21 years later they are the same toys I am reaching for, but they are full-size now. In regards to men doing "gay" things, I gotta point out that you have to be a man first, and only then can you engage in non-masculine things, but it doesn't work the other way around, e.i. a warrior can be a sensitive poet.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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