"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok so i'm skinny with average looks...my main pulling is in clubs....now how do i show more value than guys with better looks or build?.

Do i show charisma or alphaness by dancing first or walking a certain way or what?.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ok firstly if your 22 then why are you posting int he highschool forums... and for that matter... how does the highschool forum have anything to do with clubbing (if its not in school)

If your talking about a club situation... what you do is get a girl thats a friend (but NOT a girlfriend) and start grinding her (cuz you 2 are such good friends) and dancing etc. This will attract other girls attention. Oh yeah this girl should be hot but only a friend to you.
 

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Look man, I am skinny 6'1....130 lbs. I pull chicks right under all these "jocks" noses. Looks mean nothing.

When I go to a club, I approach a set within a second of entering the club, this establishes social proof.

If you are in a mixed set (guys and girls)...game the girls naturally....if the guys hassle you...use a "cool man" or amog blast them.

Go to my forum in my signature...sign up, read the articles....and youll know how to aproach and "game" a set.

Love
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Originally posted by bluelemond
^ why not disarm the obstacles first?
Your definetly right man. You could disarm the obstacles...or you could befriend them. But personaly I plow...and when plowing guys step up and try to take controll of the frame....and it is more convienent to amog blast them....than to disarm or befriend them.

One time this guy tried to tool me out of this set....2 twin girls....I completely AMOG blasted him.........................he turned out to be thier brother.

Love
~Smooth
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, by disarming the obstacles, in a way it's a neg (disqualifying yourself), so I'm just trying to see why you go straight to the girls. Gunwitch Method perhaps?

Or maybe its this amog blast. What is amog blast anyway? PM me if you have to.
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
Well, by disarming the obstacles, in a way it's a neg (disqualifying yourself), so I'm just trying to see why you go straight to the girls. Gunwitch Method perhaps?

Or maybe its this amog blast. What is amog blast anyway? PM me if you have to.
I am full Mystery Method, but I am always doing social experimentation....so every so often Ill break a couple rules of MM to see what happends.

I try to implement minor things from other methods into my game just to see the effect.....you never know, it may work.

Your right about Gunwitch....sometimes when Im not in full state.....Ill do some direct gaming...aka...Gunwitch.

Love,
~Smooth
 

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To the origional poster:

This question is WAY TOO VAGUE.

This is why so many people are getting fed up with this forum. Because of dumb @$$ questions like this. Make a damn search before hand. This place is already filled with these answers. DO you honestly think that someone is going to spoon feed you with the answers? What makes you so special? Your question is so general. How can you solve a case with no clues?

Let this be an example to all newbies:

Not only will your stupid question make this site look worse and worse BUT no-one is going to give you the answer you are looking for.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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