"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to become a more well-rounded guy?

apocalypse later

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One thing I've noticed about guys who always get girls is that they are extremely well-rounded. They can talk about almost anything.

A friend of mine is this kind of guy. He acts, he plays sports, he keeps up with current events, and you can bring up just about any subject and he'll have some insightful thing to say, even if it is basic.

Do you guys have any general advice on becoming more well-rounded? I realize that "doing more stuff" will get me there, but I'm looking for something more than that. Maybe this is really vague, but hopefully someone can shed some light on this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yotsuya-san

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"A wise man once said that he who tries to know everything about something ends up knowing something about nothing. And he who tries to know something about everything, ends up knowing everything about nothing"
Harrison Blackwood (War of the Worlds: The Second Invasion)​
 

Berlex

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gain some weight, that should make you rounder
 

misterethoughts

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read... read.... go to library and just read books on any subject... listen to news,music,dvds,tv, and conversate with people who are smarter then you...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ScrewIt

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You can only go so far with reading, I suggest taking up new interests/hobbies/activities so when the opportunity arises, you actually have the experience to back up the conversation. Knowledge becomes useless if you dont apply it to the real world. And the real world goes to sh!t if you dont apply it to your wisdom/knowledge. But yes do read the news and keep up with current events.
 

seanchai

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If you want to be interesting, you have to do interesting things. I realized this today. The coolest people in the world, the ones everyone wants to be around, don't have normal, typical days... they do something interesting every day.

So my advice would be, chase one impulse a day and see where it takes you.
 

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seanchai said:
If you want to be interesting, you have to do interesting things. I realized this today. The coolest people in the world, the ones everyone wants to be around, don't have normal, typical days... they do something interesting every day.

So my advice would be, chase one impulse a day and see where it takes you.
if you do more DOing and less THINKing, it comes naturally.


Apprenez à penser en dehors de la boîte, trouvaille ce qui sont et ne donnent vos passions vous-même aucune limite
 

Falcon

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Yea doing more stuff is usually the answer. The key here I believe is that you have to do things that you aren't comfortable doing. Something that goes against your habits. If you're the nerdy type, try picking up a sport. If you're always spending time outside or playing sports, read a book every once and a while. That's what I see as being more well-rounded/balanced.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Berlex said:
gain some weight, that should make you rounder
what an A$$hole...LOL, funny response though:crackup:
 
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