"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to become a MODERATOR.

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How do you become one? What are the requirments? Are there no spots left? Was there a point were the creator of this site had a now hiring MODERATORS sign? WHO is the creator of this site? I have a feeling the name ALLEN THOMPSON has something to do with it. Whatever happened? And why are there never any new articles on the main site. It seems like the main site is outdated. Whoever changed the main site PLEASE put the color scheme back to what it was....black with yellow font. It was much more attracting and that font made me want to read WHEREAS this font just makes it seem BORING and a pain.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You have to give the owner of the site a blow job. :p



Seriously though, I think you can apply when a current mod quits and a position opens up.
 
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Thanks but does anyone know any of the other questions like who created this site. And that we need to get whoever to change the color scheme on the main site to what it was at the beginning.....black with yellow text. That's much more attrative for a reader to read it.
 
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You seem too anxious to be a moderator. Didn't I give you the two simpleist rules ever when you asked last time?

- Rule 1: Do not openly ask to be a moderator

- Rule 2: Do NOT openly ask to be a moderator
 
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Alright, but that still doesn't answer the other questions. AND WE NEED TO GET THE ONLY COLOR SCHEME BACK ON THE MAIN SITE.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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from what i understand, the black/yellow scheme was from about 4-5 years ago.

this makes you 11 or 12 at the time of that scheme.

i have real doubts you actually came here then.

compare one of the current mods contribution to this board with your own contribution, are you fit to be a mod? - i say no.
 
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Originally posted by quest
from what i understand, the black/yellow scheme was from about 4-5 years ago.

this makes you 11 or 12 at the time of that scheme.

i have real doubts you actually came here then.

compare one of the current mods contribution to this board with your own contribution, are you fit to be a mod? - i say no.
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The "black/yellow" color scheme was as recent as a year ago. That is when the posts about "How AFC is that guy on the main site?" started...
 
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Originally posted by quest
compare one of the current mods contribution to this board with your own contribution, are you fit to be a mod? - i say no.
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No i'm not. I never said I was. I was just curious.

"The "black/yellow" color scheme was as recent as a year ago. That is when the posts about "How AFC is that guy on the main site?" started..."

Is that some sort of joke? Because if it is I don't get it.

Plus I think we can all agree that the black/yellow color scheme was way better and that it should be changed back.
 
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The first rule of Mod Club is you do not talk about Mod Club.

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Originally posted by ShizamDaMan
The first rule of Mod Club is you do not talk about Mod Club.

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Haha... *internet high five*
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Eternal
The "black/yellow" color scheme was as recent as a year ago. That is when the posts about "How AFC is that guy on the main site?" started...
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Lol. really?

why can i not remember? lol. too much alcohol maybe.
 
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I'm not supposed to tell anyone this... but if you blow a moderator who is about to quit...

He'll give you a referral to the big guy. ;)

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Originally posted by The Antichrist_Star
I'm not supposed to tell anyone this... but if you blow a moderator who is about to quit...

He'll give you a referral to the big guy. ;)

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Geez man, you are starting to get desperate again, aren't you?

Blue - No, that wasn't a joke. When Allen changed the color and picture, people actually posted that.
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
Geez man, you are starting to get desperate again, aren't you?

Blue - No, that wasn't a joke. When Allen changed the color and picture, people actually posted that.
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Why in the world isn't the old color scheme back on the main site?

Let make this fair who votes for the OLD schem and who votes for the NEW scheme? I vote for the OLD.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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These threads pop up way too much.

Also, I was the one that fixed the guy image. Before it used to have a ton of white around it and looked like crap. There isn't anything wrong with the main page. It works for now.
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
These threads pop up way too much.

Also, I was the one that fixed the guy image. Before it used to have a ton of white around it and looked like crap. There isn't anything wrong with the main page. It works for now.
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I hope your not talking about the black and yellow color scheme, because that was the BEST color scheme any site has/had.
 
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Originally posted by bluelemond
I hope your not talking about the black and yellow color scheme, because that was the BEST color scheme any site has/had.
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R>C>P
 
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